Serial cheater and still BS is sticking to him...Why would BS do that?

[stillafool]

My xMM was a serial cheater and was caught by his wife several times, but he denied each time and she accpeted him. I told her everythng and she still didnt leave him. What a desperate, needy woman. No wonder that the guy is having fun. I feel BS like that are equally responsible and they are more interested in the perks than the infidelty. If she leaves him she is going to loose status, money and will be considered a failure. However, MM is having his cake and eat it too since he can and he knows wife isnt going anywhere.

 

When I warned him to tell her he wasnt bothered to stop me since he didnt bother her knowing. not only MM are at fault but women who accept it fuel it more... and if they are staying for kids what a fake life for kids. One day they will find out whole foundation is fake. Not to mention one of the child is illegimate love child of wife, so herself had her share of fun. What a wonderful relatinship.

 

Well she is probably staying because she is madly in love with him because after all she did marry the man. She may experience great sex with him and thinks she cannot find it anywhere else the way he provides it. His game may be so tight that no matter what you tell her she will believe him because afterall, he is HER husband. I would think if he could get you to lower your morals to be with a married man it should be understandable to you how she as his wife would believe his BS as well.

[liloldlady]

What a desperate, needy woman. No wonder that the guy is having fun. I feel BS like that are equally responsible and they are more interested in the perks than the infidelty.

 

I agree. Don't let the guy be rich or famous. Then they really look the other way. Dummy.

 

If she leaves him she is going to loose status, money and will be considered a failure.

 

Preach! I can relate.

 

However, MM is having his cake and eat it too since he can and he knows wife isnt going anywhere.

 

Eventually she should get sick of it, especially if he's cheating on a long-term basis, which means he has feelings for the woman.

[liloldlady]

At least the BS has a history with him and her status with him is authentic.

 

...who is to say what is "authentic"? At least the one not being cheated on usually knows the deal...

[stillafool]

...who is to say what is "authentic"? At least the one not being cheated on usually knows the deal...

 

Which one is that? He's rich and probably has another OW.

[Woggle]

She is dumb for staying with him but why are you messing with him if he is so horrible? Why not walk away and get yourself some peace.

[Artie Lang]

this woman sounds pretty pathetic. clearly, she's lacking some self-respect with a sprinkling of loss of dignity

 

maybe she can't let go of the lifestyle they have.

[William]

I've got a request in to my fellow moderators regarding some issues which cropped up while reviewing this thread and that, combined with the thread starter not returning to address the additional responses, causes me to close this pending resolution. The thread starter is welcomed to contact moderation and request opening to add further content once we get the moderation stuff resolved.

 

Update:

 

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Edited December 4, 2013 by William
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