kanimozhi Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Hey I just started wid my new relationship Its just been less than a month n ive already hurted him by talking about d insecurities of being in a relationship wid a guy who's a dj/fashion designer... I didn't mean to offend his job or anything but a few ppl just confused me so I had an argument... N I did apologise for it but I wanna make it up to him Maybe its a big deal or not I just want to make him feel tht He's something special Cuz after so long my relationship with dis person is making my lyf worth while..n I wanna make it last So I need ideas, something I can do for him (object) to make him feel my love:)
Shepp Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 1. Don't spell 'Life', 'Lyf' - its one extra letter and lyf requires more jumping around the keyboard anyway! 2. What insecurities of dating a guy whos a dj or a fashion designer? 3. Two doesn't really matter, I don't think its a big deal either way, probably nothing more than a tiff 4. You said sorry - good. Now you want to buy him something to fix it - bad. This isn't a money thing this is a support thing. You want to make it up to him then you need to take an interest in and support him in, his career. 5. a relationship of any length but particularly under a month should not be making your life. Maybe you should switch your attention to your own like and doing things that make you happy than worrying about what present to buy your boyfriend. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 You have already apologized. As the relationship progresses be more cicumspect about sharing your insecurities. Also be very selective about listening to other people's advice. They are not inside your relationship. If something comes up in his career / life celebrate with him. That's the best gift you can give him: support. 1
Author kanimozhi Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 I don't mean to buy him something I meant to make him something N yes am from india and a guy being a dj or a fashion designer is not encouraged here in most families... Ya its been only a month Well we take relationship seriously Month or a year doesn't make much difference to me 1. Don't spell 'Life', 'Lyf' - its one extra letter and lyf requires more jumping around the keyboard anyway! 2. What insecurities of dating a guy whos a dj or a fashion designer? 3. Two doesn't really matter, I don't think its a big deal either way, probably nothing more than a tiff 4. You said sorry - good. Now you want to buy him something to fix it - bad. This isn't a money thing this is a support thing. You want to make it up to him then you need to take an interest in and support him in, his career. 5. a relationship of any length but particularly under a month should not be making your life. Maybe you should switch your attention to your own like and doing things that make you happy than worrying about what present to buy your boyfriend.
Shepp Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 I don't mean to buy him something I meant to make him something Right, but you don't need to. That's not the way to fix this N yes am from india and a guy being a dj or a fashion designer is not encouraged here in most families... So when you show him you support him totally - that'll mean a lot to him! Ya its been only a month, Well we take relationship seriously, Month or a year doesn't make much difference to me I take my relationship seriously, very seriously, but a month or a year, its not healthy to put your whole life, your whole happiness in someone else's hands. Put that much pressure on a relationship and you run the risk of suffocating it. The more you do outside your relationship the more you can bring to your relationship. 1
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