its 3 am (short vent)

[FearingTEN]

its 3 am in the morning . cant sleep . got school in 3 hours . missing her terribly . She said she loves me and that she wants to be with me . she just broke up with her rebound and im giving her time til i ask her out . i dont want it to be soon . but damn am i sad . i miss her like crazy .

[headinthecloud]

This is the girl that hooked up with her crush...the guy she lusted after while you were together, right?

 

If that's true, why would you ever consider being with her again? Her BU with you was a clear indication that she doesn't respect you. Why would you want someone in your life who treats you badly?

 

If you want a healthy relationship then you have to let go of this girl as "your dream girl". Dream girls don't dump you, and they don't cheat. They love you and never let you go.

[Chi townD]

This is a post of your back in August:

 

My long story short:

-Dated a girl for 2 and a half years.

-All was well until she admitted into having a crush with another guy a year into our relationship

-Things went downhill as her talking to this guy made me super protective (which she didnt like )

-Had many arguments but always forgave each other in the mornings

-She breaks up with me out of the blue

-She dates the other guy 2 weeks later

-I begin crying, pleading and begging her back for two months

-She said to leave her alone and became VERY harsh and bitter towards me

-Decided to stop begging and go no contact (exactly a week ago)

 

 

Look at the bold. This was her choice. She made a choice to have you out of her life. Therefore, you gave her exactly what she's asking for.

 

I would strongly suggest that you let this on go. She valued this guy sooo much that she thought he was worth tossing you and your 2 year relationship into the gutter. What happens the next time she develops a crush on someone else? Toss you to the curb again? She did it rather easily once, she can easily do it again!