lilithmoon Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 I was raped a couple of days ago..*I didn't go to health officials until the next day when I was having a panic attack. They called the police for me, gave me a urine and blood test and sent me home with a plan B pill. Yet I'm so worried I may have caught something serious like HIV. After my so called friend raped me, he swore to me and told me not to worry and that he was clean and tested negative.* Yet my mind races and I have anxiety every day feeling like I've caught something.He didn't use a condom, penetrated for a short period of time, and didn't ejaculate.*As far as I know not ejaculating lowers the risk, but still I'm so scared. I've taken multiple risk assessments online and they all point to me having either no risk or low risk, but I'm not satisfied. I need to know. And I don't know if I can last 3 months until I get checked again.Any advice for me?is it possible I could have something so life threatening?***
robbysurfs Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 I am really sorry to hear that has happened to you first off. That is horrible that a guy would do that do you. I hope you get justice in what ever actions you take against him concerning the laws in your state. To answer your question the most threatening thing would probably be what long term effects this will have on you mentally. In a case like hiv people live with this today and it is not a death sentence it will make your life more difficult regarding medicine and seeing doctors regularly. If he is a intravenous drug user or a homosexual then the chance of catching a std go up. However hiv is not easily passed through sex except in the cases where there is tearing and blood. I would worry more if he is a know needle user. I would not worry about hiv I would definitely press charges to the full extent and see a good therapist... 2
Author lilithmoon Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 he isn't a needle user nor homosexual. however He has had multiple sex partners. Tells me he gets tested every month or 3 weeks and has been clean. I want to believe him, but after what he did I'm so afraid. He kept ttelling me not to worry. and I just didn't want to see him after that or talk to him. I reported him to the police and he kept messaging me upset, telling me had his records to show me he was clean, but I just didn't want to talk to him at all. deleted his number, changed my own, and let the police handle it.
Author lilithmoon Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 There wasn't any blood. I didn't see any. As for tearing, I'm not too sure. I have an appointment with a gyno tomorrow morning, and Im even afraid of going there. I don't want anyone touching me for a while..
robbysurfs Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 I would make a appointment with a good therapist and talk to a professional. I wouldn't worry about a std. This can be very traumatizing and can have long term affects. I know some women that this has happened to and it was very difficult for them to deal with mentally and emotionally. If you are a minor you should talk to your parents the police and ask for help. Seek some counseling or ask your doctor for help in this situation. 1
Author lilithmoon Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 he's already been reported to police, and they've handled the situation. My parents haven't been much help. they say their disappointed in me and are unhappy with me. Ive been given a stricker schedule and I cant even have my phone with me at night. I feel like they blame me for whats happened even though they say its not my fault. But just the doing that makes me feel like it is. My father doesn't even look at me anymore and has been serious ever since the situation. I hope you're right in the case that I haven't caught anything. Im so worried about my health right now over anything. I was only given the plan B pill just in case and so far its been giving me side effects of tiredness, clear discharge and slight lower abdominal pain. either that or it's the anxiety. I just.. I can't be diagnosed with anything.
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