Leigh 87 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 HAHA. So, the @ss clown who disappeared on me back in September, after acting really into me and saying he had never been more attracted to a partner or fell as hard as fast; he came back. IF you could even call it that..... I happened to finally meet a wonderful guy; more on that later. I was nuts for my ex, that disappeared, more than I was previously with any other guy. Then the new guy I recently met I was even more smitten with. SO. Guy I was once crazy about, that disappeared; he REAPPEARED. And on the day I finally met a new guy I really liked! I had just had the best first date in my life, lasted all day, and then at the end of the date with the new guy; d*ck face texts. He is actually saved as "D!ckface" in my phone.. With some more choice words thrown in the mix. So I had a message from "d!ckface who comes in 30 seconds" come up on my phone. I was in shock when the loser texted. I fell hard for him, hard and fast. At the time. I thought he felt the same way.... I was honest and told the new guy. About the text. So he had a right to back away from me and decide whether he still wanted to get to know me better. As much as I liked the new guy, I had to hear my ex out. I wanted closure. My gut was screaming that my ex was not genuine, and the new guy WAS. ..... So after the date with new guy, I agreed to meet my ex that night. We had chemistry of the charts and I could NOT turn it down. We fooled around. Not sex at all. He explained that he was such a pr!ck to me. He said he'd make it up to me. That he was in hospital due to a nervous breakdown. He felt leaving me was the best course of action. He wanted to try again. He texted me for a couple of days but then disappeared again. The thing is, I didn't care; I knew he was full of sh*t and I knew he would just disappear again. I knew he came back because he is very attracted to me, we have insane sexual chemistry, and he finds me funny. He doesn't have deep emotions for me.. I was just a girl he thought was hot. And he liked to be around enough to tolerate (in order to get some pu$$y). ...Before the loser disappeared again, I had already made up my mind I'd give things a go with the new guy. I have a MUCH better gut feeling about the new guy...... SO there ya go. Guys come back JUST as you meet someone else.. And they f*ck off just like they did the time before. Once they get sex, or some action, in all likelihood. 3
Author Leigh 87 Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 And I was totally shocked when he texted me after all those months.. It was the unthinkable and I was in shock at the time. ....Although I soon realised he was just full of sh*t, haha!
gutsandgrace Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Yep, these douches always seem to have a sixth sense for when we are into another guy, or we are over their ass. Never fails!!! 2
RespectfullyAlone Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 You know I keep hearing about this and maybe that's why I havn't heard from my ex. I doubt it. She's pretty serious and planning a wedding if my FB stalking info from 8 or so months ago is still correct. Though however, it's now officially Summer, so she hasn't had a Spring wedding like she desired just yet. At any rate, we all know there is no such thing as our exes knowing we have gotten over them, unless you are in LC. If you are pure NC, as in I moved my ass across the country, or to the other side of the planet, or moved to a cave, grew a beard, beat my chest and ran around in loin clothes, how are they honestly going to know? They will only know if you want them to. I'd still give anything, and I mean ANYTHING to hear from my ex. Even if it failed to gain a result of reconciliation, I need this to happen for me, my heart, my mind my fears, my confidence. I need to know that at least one woman I have loved in my life still thinks of me, maybe even still worries about me, or hopes I am ok. I NEED this. So many here have gotten breadcrumbs, contact from the ex, even meeting up, I however have gotten nothing. I could have moved on, got married, she doesn't know, so would she then know to contact me for some reason. NC destroys all hope of an ex getting in touch with you. It seems LC does bring it about though, whether it be jealousy, or regrets who knows, but NC is the death man, it's a one way ticket to misery forever.
organizedchaos Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 You know I keep hearing about this and maybe that's why I havn't heard from my ex. I doubt it. She's pretty serious and planning a wedding if my FB stalking info from 8 or so months ago is still correct. Though however, it's now officially Summer, so she hasn't had a Spring wedding like she desired just yet. At any rate, we all know there is no such thing as our exes knowing we have gotten over them, unless you are in LC. If you are pure NC, as in I moved my ass across the country, or to the other side of the planet, or moved to a cave, grew a beard, beat my chest and ran around in loin clothes, how are they honestly going to know? They will only know if you want them to. I'd still give anything, and I mean ANYTHING to hear from my ex. Even if it failed to gain a result of reconciliation, I need this to happen for me, my heart, my mind my fears, my confidence. I need to know that at least one woman I have loved in my life still thinks of me, maybe even still worries about me, or hopes I am ok. I NEED this. So many here have gotten breadcrumbs, contact from the ex, even meeting up, I however have gotten nothing. I could have moved on, got married, she doesn't know, so would she then know to contact me for some reason. NC destroys all hope of an ex getting in touch with you. It seems LC does bring it about though, whether it be jealousy, or regrets who knows, but NC is the death man, it's a one way ticket to misery forever. No, it's a one way ticket for you to get over someone who walked out on you! It is not to get your ex back. And all those who got those breadcrumbs or meetings bc of LC, only to see their ex go back to ignoring them filling them with false hopes? How are they doing now? You got it all backwards. 4
Author Leigh 87 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Posted December 10, 2013 Well, things are working out so well with the new guy. Even if the prick who came back for a night only to dissappear again 2 days later had wanted to stick around, I still had made my decision to pick the new guy. I had decided to go with new guy.. I was planning to break it to the guy who came back. Only he disappeared again anyway. Saving ne the effort of breaking things off with him:lmao: 1
No Limit Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Never have sex with an ex. And always give the new guy a try if you already have a good feeling about him. I'm sure an ex can find a girl somewhere else to polish his ego.
Author Leigh 87 Posted December 14, 2013 Author Posted December 14, 2013 I feel pretty bad about how I went on a date with the current guy, so date ONE for us; then my ex rang. I told the guy I was on the date with about my ex contacting me; I told him I was in shock and I needed to think about things. I then met up with my ex. I fooled around with him. We have INCFREDIBLY sexual chemistry. One look at him and I am lost for words:o:o Then after a day or two, I decide to pick the current guy and to ditch the guy who came back to me. ......I was NOT exclusive with guy one on our first date, and I WOULD NEVER cheat on him now that we are in a relationship.
Author Leigh 87 Posted December 15, 2013 Author Posted December 15, 2013 HAHA. So the disappearing pr*ck texted me tonight. Since I went spastic at him the last time he came back and disappeared ( I know he doesn't care, I felt satisfaction in yelling at him via texts) So tonight he texted " I always thought you were gorgeous. This is not you at all. I am not well. Sorry" " I never meant to hurt you.. farrrrr from it... you are looking great'' ( I sent him a sunburn pic of me sunbaking. To get a rise out of him and to make him horny without him being able to have me anymore, ever again) I told him that I will always care about him even though he is the biggest prick I have ever met, and I am here if he needs a friend. He thanked me. OH - and I told him: " if you are married or with someone, and you need to talk about it, I wont judge you and I am always here if you need an outlet to talk to" ...I always got the impression he either; was married or partnered up, since he never invited me over and, instead, came to see me for the month we were together. And promptly disappeared the second he said he was " now free" to be everything to me, time wise since he was so busy with work before that point.... He said: " I am not married and I'm not seeing anyone at all" Sigh. Guys like this honestly fascinate me? I asked him " how can you go to sleep at night? What it is like to be heartless? Why didn't you just TELL me you wanted casual sex? You know we cannot resist each other, you dint have to lie and pretend to be into me" He still doesn't admit he lied. He said " I didn't pretend" Really? You tell a guy you know what his deal is yet you still care anyways and you;re there to listen to him, and he STILL lies? ...................................... I feel so sorry for him.. He has no heart whatsoever. I don't think truly kind people disappear on girls like me, only to treat others like gold. Truly happy people, I have noticed, are not selectively nice... I find truly happy people to .. be really decent people in general. The happiest people on the planet tend to treat others with respect, and not just certain people. I have a strong feeling he will be back! But not for long, since I have a lovely boyfriend who I like way more than I ever did this wang.... It was just extremely intense sexual chemistry, to the point of.... aghhh. I can now see that is all it ever was. I DO think there is a chance he was legitimately into me when we first started dating back in early September. I feel there is a chance that he changed his mind about me and is genuinely messed up, the way he says he is. I do remember me asking him about things and him confession he had mental problems and was not well and saw a psych. I wish I knew the truth to the matter. Guys like this really intrigue me. I know there are sociopaths and then just people who still care, yet are not all that decent in terms of their morals. In these instances, I do wonder if they are sociopaths, lack empathy but care too much to be a sociopath, or they told the truth and are genuinely messed up. I could tell I was physically good enough for him, we had off the charts chemistry. Maybe he was just not that into me and faked it whilst planning to move onto another girl, if not already when with me:lmao: I wish I knew the truth to these things, about the guy/girl who will always get you:( He knows I have extremely strong sexual chemistry with him and I would have HAPPILY had an ea
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