tink_10050 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 This week has been hell. My ex wants to be friends. I asked him to give me space because he was making me crazy, and I love him, but don't know if there is any hope. He was calling and texting constantly. So it's been a week and he has respected my request to leave me alone. I'm an emotional wreck. I went out with friends to celebrate my birthday and didn't realize that drinking would allow my emotions to float to the top. I had a great time, but just barely went home before they cut loose. I'm seriously not ready to date.... it just makes me cry.So i decided that I'm not going to force myself to go out. I just wind up crying. I gave myself permission tonight to text or call my ex if I want to. Guess what.... I can't do it. I'm too upset with him.
reddragon588 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Guess what.... I can't do it. I'm too upset with him. Way to go! Stick with it! Whenever you feel like you want to contact him, check this link out: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/117844-post-here-instead-contacting-your-ex 1
denxnis Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Don't try to fake it. I also went out partying a few weeks after my break-up and I was a wreck, I just couldn't have fun... In all honesty life sucked and I thought the best days of my life were behind me... but guess what, I was oh so wrong. It's these negative times in our lives that force us to grow. Keep your head up and stay away from the ex, they are poison!! ;-) 2
Salvatore85 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Alcohol totally made the situation worse for me. I would feel great while I was drunk and out with my friends but once I got home and was alone it was like instant depression.
Am4Real Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 This is perfect advice!! Telling the OP not to fake it will help her be herself both now and as time marches forward. Don't try to fake it. I also went out partying a few weeks after my break-up and I was a wreck, I just couldn't have fun... In all honesty life sucked and I thought the best days of my life were behind me... but guess what, I was oh so wrong. It's these negative times in our lives that force us to grow. Keep your head up and stay away from the ex, they are poison!! ;-)
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