My friends girl is paranoid he's going to cheat on her.

[MoooOinkBaaa]

My friend is having trouble with his relationship, thought I'd post here for him on his behalf, it'd be helpful to get more advice.

 

Basically he met a girl in a video game over a year ago and he admitted to his girlfriend he had feelings for her. He hasn't talked to her since though, only once or twice over a year.

 

Problem is his girlfriend is so paranoid he is going to cheat on her because he talked to this girl again recently.

 

He sent his girlfriend a text and she replied "is that meant for me". She keeps checking his phone, skype, facebook, e-mails too.

 

He says she should trust him and he shouldn't have to be told who he can and can't be friends with.

 

What's your thoughts criticisms and opinions?

[regine_phalange]

She is right to feel uncomfortable. I d be very annoyed. How would he feel if his girlfriend was talking with someone who fancies her or she used to fancy herself?

[d0nnivain]

I think your friend's ethics are in the right place. He hasn't cheated. From you posted, I suspect he'd break up with the current GF before cheating. That certainly is of little comfort to the GF.

 

 

What does your buddy want? Does he want to keep his relationship? If so he needs to stop talking about this other girl. (BTW how can you have feelings for somebody when all you do is play a video game with them? Is he really sure this OL girl is even an actual female?) If he wants to pursue something with the OL the classy thing to do would be to end the relationship with the current GF first.

[MoooOinkBaaa]

He doesn't want to cheat but he does fancy her, she's his type. He wants his current girlfriend. He doesn't talk about her just talked to her the other day, sent her a link to a music video and his girlfriend said it was suggestive.

 

He doesn't want to pursue.

 

LOL the game is World of Warcraft and he's seen a video of her. In video games online you can talk and I guess develop feelings just like by e-mails and messaging.

[Mariposa10]

Sounds like my selfish prick of an ex boyfriend, I became paranoid one day he just said my attitude "kept bringing him down" and that he was not gonna stop talking to this girl... All went down the hill from there and my living hell started.

 

 

Please, tell your friend to stop making his girlfriend suffer. I feel for the girl, I was in her shoes. If he's not in love with her, he should just break up with her.