the tank Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I have a big dilemma . One part of me really want to since she broke my confidence . I was so hurt and I'm seeing a therapist ... But another part tell me i'm not that type of personn. Btw i have picture that proof she is a liar.
Author the tank Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 you're right .I can't protect people against her behaviour. I had a brain cramp today by looking her instagramm. I was doing well. I need to continue that way
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 You won't be believed. You will come off as the bitter, crazy EX who can't let go. Block her from all social media in your life & you should be fine. 2
toolforgrowth Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Let him learn on his own, the effect is much more powerful that way. On the flip side, maybe they'll be completely happy together. You really just never know. But I'm a believer in letting relationships succeed or fail on its own. My ex wife is horrible at relationships and she moved in with her new bf earlier his year after a very short period of dating. I didn't say a word...it's not my place. If they're happy together, great...that means she's out of my way. If they're miserable, well, better him dealing with her than me. See how that works? I'm golden either way. Definitely do not say anything. Let nature run its course. 2
radiodarcy Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 nope. if she is a pathological liar, he's bound to find out sooner or later. Chances are they are in the "honeymoon" period of the relationship. So even if you did tell him, he wouldn't believe it anyway at this point. 1
whichwayisup Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 you're right .I can't protect people against her behaviour. I had a brain cramp today by looking her instagramm. I was doing well. I need to continue that way Make yourself a promise! No more online stalking her. All that does is keep her in your head. She has moved on, has someone else, so you watching what she does or says online is messing you up and keeping the focus on her. No more! Let go and say 'fu,ck it, i'm DONE'. Live your life and smile. 2
Author the tank Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 You won't be believed. You will come off as the bitter, crazy EX who can't let go. Block her from all social media in your life & you should be fine. She write to me on facebook to excuse about the lies and cheating on me. Anyway I will not write to her new BF Make yourself a promise! No more online stalking her. All that does is keep her in your head. She has moved on, has someone else, so you watching what she does or says online is messing you up and keeping the focus on her. No more! Let go and say 'fu,ck it, i'm DONE'. Live your life and smile. I have already block her on facebook a month ago. I'm thinking deleting instagram for a while. thanks i need to follow your advice
Author the tank Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 Funny How this morning she write to me to tell me if we can meet to give me back my stuff. I didnt even remeber i had stuff... Anyway I told her to throw out and to never write to me again.
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