Karmasgonnagetyou Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Firstly , sorry for my poor english . I dated 3,5 years with a guy 6 years older than me. It was a long distance relationship, all began with casual conversation on internet and after a year, we decided to be together personally. We started dating and everything was going well. I did everything for him and to be together. He was my first boyfriend, my first everything. Traveled alone to be with him, woke up in the night to talk to him by phone, I was always caring like my world revolved around him. He initially told me he suffered a lot in past relationships .... said he had a girlfriend who left him to be single. He asked me to never leave him and promised the same. Well, two months ago he dumped for someone else...Told me he can't handle distance anymore and wants a relationship with someone from his city...It's so ironic, because he always condemn those who took these decisions. I think everyday about this...How can people be so cold and to engage in a new relationship, forgetting the person who has always been on their side? I hate him so much right now and dont know if I can love and trust someone again. When I think to be with someone else I feel depressed... He broke up with me on a Sunday, and every weekend I feel dead inside. I feel so sad and incomplete. After your first heartbreak, you were able to trust someone? What changed in you and in relationship with others? Were able to love as much as your first love?
headinthecloud Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 You'll never love anyone like you're first love. But you will love again, differently but it will be just as amazing. You need to get out of your house on the weekends if they remind you of bad times. Keep busy and get moving.
JDPT Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 We often tend to rationalize the irrational. We are only left to gracefully accept and carry on, sometimes is best to just walk away with your head high with your sight on new horizons. Keep your mind busy, go through the motions, move your body and your mind will follow. Our exes promised us the world but those words are now gone, and it does internalize the fact the words are cheap. Be strong, create new scenarios, new memories, and a new life. As they say, life does go on, let's not remain stagnant. 1
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