Robbyrob Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Hey i recently posted a very long and complicated love story. I can always help someone else but not myself in this situation! I didnt do anything wrong, I dont regret anything, i was just unlucky. Thank you guys for supporting. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/446211-did-ex-gf-really-changed-her-mind
elbe Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 You are just going to sit on your arse for a few years and hope this girl comes back for you?
Author Robbyrob Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 You are just going to sit on your arse for a few years and hope this girl comes back for you? no of course im not gonna wait for her. ill go my way. but i mean she said she would always want me in the future. im living my life, grow and hope to get in touch with her again. im just wondering if shell change this image again cause she should know who i really am. i just think she tried to get over me by saying that and continueing with her life. at the end ill see it all rational, but still it bothers me why someone changes its mind so quickly.
Sososad Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 No one can answer this pal.. We just leave things to chance and faith! Try live your life the best and happiest you can and if she comes back cross that Bridge when/if it happens.. She could meet mr right tonight or you maybe over her totally tomorrow who knows...... 1
Author Robbyrob Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 No one can answer this pal.. We just leave things to chance and faith! Try live your life the best and happiest you can and if she comes back cross that Bridge when/if it happens.. She could meet mr right tonight or you maybe over her totally tomorrow who knows...... yeah you are right.. its hard to say...i think for the next 2.5/3 years i can only go my way. i mean its her loss, she knows that im a great bf. well if ill ever get back in touch with her, i dont know. we will see, but i try to bring her over to the "friendship side". and maybe ill meet her again, if not it wasnt meant to be! i only know that the distance made her like that, otherwise if she was still here with me it would not have happened
2fargone Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 yeah you are right.. its hard to say...i think for the next 2.5/3 years i can only go my way. i mean its her loss, she knows that im a great bf. well if ill ever get back in touch with her, i dont know. we will see, but i try to bring her over to the "friendship side". and maybe ill meet her again, if not it wasnt meant to be! i only know that the distance made her like that, otherwise if she was still here with me it would not have happened I really dislike cliches.... What does that mean, if it was meant to be ? You MAKE things you want them to be! However, for a relationship it takes 2 people. If you were that great she would still be there. Distance or not. Time to wake up! You might get her back in a few months or years. But certainly not if you stick around. You might not even want her back unless you stick around. 1
Author Robbyrob Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 I really dislike cliches.... What does that mean, if it was meant to be ? You MAKE things you want them to be! However, for a relationship it takes 2 people. If you were that great she would still be there. Distance or not. Time to wake up! You might get her back in a few months or years. But certainly not if you stick around. You might not even want her back unless you stick around. she is just 20, i would never someone give up the career because of me. in this case we have to think realistic and she needs to take this chance to study medicine in Hungary. ill be at least for a couple of years abroad, but im flexible in what im doing. i mean my impression about her wont change, it never happened anything bad inbetween us. and thats true it always requires 2 people. but this situation was very unique for both of us cause we first ended in a good way, but then i saw her again and she changed her mind. at the end if she really knows who I am, and im sure that could be stuck in her mind, then shell think about it twice to see me in a different light in the future. but i dont know...its not that easy to deal with it when you still have feelings. But you are absolutely right, it can change on both sides immediately.
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