Zoe Lilith Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I moved on after my bf lied about such horrible thing and then dumped me out of the blue..everything has been great since - up until now..I got in touch with a mutual friend of ours, who has no idea that we were together, he talks about my ex all the time, and I just started thinking about the whole situation again. As I said before, my ex lied to me, and I hated him for that, but very quicly I have moved on..Or so I thought..I got that urge to contract him, I haven't stopped thinking about him today. I am trying to get my attantion away with things that I used to do...It doesn't seem to be working. I hope this is just passing period, but the pain and love i feel everytime I think of him, is unbearable..
Sososad Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I started a post today quite similar too. I think it could be normal I don't know if we bury the feelings So deep inside that's what allows us to move on but all it takes is someone Talking about them Facebook or a text To bring them right back to the surface. I feel I'm nearly back to square one.. It's so disheartening to try all over again.. But guess we got to do it again and hopefully be stronger next time! You should confide in your friend or at least explain that you don't want to speak or hear anything about this guy .. You can't keep risking your own feeling and progress .. Sounds like you were doing a great job ! 1
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Your friend brought up old good memories. The loss of the relationship is painful. However, you know your EX lied & there are good reasons you aren't together. When you feeling longing, think about the bad stuff. 2
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 I didn't want to let go, I begged, I couldn't accept the fact that he didn't want me anymore. I was willing to look away and ignore all the lies he told. I was so pathetic. Later, he wanted to talk...I couldn't care less. Recently, I have the feeling that I made a big mistake. I just don't want to be that pathetic idiot again, begging.
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 So don't beg. Even if he initiated the break up you know now that he's a LIAR. You are better off without him. Focus on that. 1
Author Zoe Lilith Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 So don't beg. Even if he initiated the break up you know now that he's a LIAR. You are better off without him. Focus on that. Thank you...I am trying my best. 1
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