Iceicebabe Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I am so extremely confused. I've jumped right into one guy to the next after my ex boyfriend broke up with me on valentines day. And after being with guys to get over my ex, it didn't work and then there was this guy that I became fond of. We started dating in June but I was also seeing other guys. But I was mostly seeing him. But I didn't want to make it official because I was scared. And I wasn't sure if I felt as strongly for him as he did for me. Time went and it was October. And I thought that maybe I should give him a try. So we made it official. And he told me that he loves me and I said it back. We hang out ALL the time and pretty much do sex everytime. Just until a couple days ago I started to feel less for him. My feelings for him weren't there and I become irritated. He touches me and I push his hands away and tell him to stop. I kiss him but I quickly pull away. I don't feel the connection anymore and I don't love him. He spoils me and he cares soooo much for me. But it's not the same for me. The question is, should I end it? I'm not being fair to him. And I obviously don't want to be a girlfriend right now to anyone. I'm so confused.
Blastbeat Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Be straight up with him, and end it ASAP if this is the truth. Don't lead him on. Remember that the longer you drag it out the harder it will be. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 You aren't confused. You know exactly what you don't want: him. You are just scared because you aren't a mean person yet you know when you tell him this isn't working for you, it will hurt him. Still you have to be honest. 1
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