freebird31 Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 What's the longest you went without contact? And how has it helped you? It's been 2 and a half months NC for me=best thing that's ever happened to me, wish I would have went NC sooner.
2fargone Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 5 years, if you consider NC being a temporary state. It didn't stop me from thinking about her every now and then. It's the only way I can move on, I don't keep in touch with exes. This one however I decided to talk to again. Feelings came up again for the both of us within a week. We'll see where it goes....
organizedchaos Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 5 years, if you consider NC being a temporary state. It didn't stop me from thinking about her every now and then. It's the only way I can move on, I don't keep in touch with exes. This one however I decided to talk to again. Feelings came up again for the both of us within a week. We'll see where it goes.... How long was this one you're talking to?
2fargone Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 How long was this one you're talking to? 4 or 5 months only. She was still hung up on her ex of 5 years, so I kinda decided to just get out of the way. We always communicated very well so everything was clear to the both of us. When I started talking to her again about 2 months ago she thanked me for it because it made her confront herself with... well, herself. She did go back to him about 4 months later. Is still with him, so that makes it 10 years. Yet something is going on between us. Normally I really don't interfere in peoples relationships but this one I can't let go again, and neither can she me... It's complicated I guess, it always is. I don't think feelings ever really die out. You can ignore them, block them, cultivate them, re-ignite them.... So I'll let this one ride out...
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