jinandjuice Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Basically I have been talking to this one girl for 2 months now. After two weeks of knowing each other we made out and slept over at each others houses after going out to clubs and drinking. No sex just cuddling and making out. I told her I liked her and she said she felt uncertain for me and needed time and didn't want to be in a relationship right now. So basically over the span of 1.5 months I have been taking her out on multiple dates getting to know each other. She has said yes to all my dates and we have had a amazing time on each of them. And a couple of days ago she finally started to open up and we started to cuddle soberly (like watching a movie). She has spent a night at my house and we cuddled while we we slept but I didn't want to make a move/go in for a kiss because she was the one that thought we were moving way too fast. I am not just looking for a hook up with this girl, I am looking for something deeper. Do friends sleep and cuddle holding hands? I am not sure if she thinks we are just friends or if this is what friends do. I was wondering if I should now move in for a kiss?
Author jinandjuice Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 It is because before we have made out and kissed and I was on the idea that we both liked each other if we were going to do that. So I asked her if she liked me and that I liked her. Well she said she couldn't say she liked me but she had feelings for me. I didn't want to make a move unless she wanted to because I had kissed her before when she and I were drunk. I don't know... do you think the window is closed now? She said she wanted to take it slow..Ahhh I dont know..
Parkour Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I think the right time is now. The thing is i don't think you can have a relationship until you've had sex though, you need to know that the love and the sexual chemistry is there for a good relationship. She could mean she doesn't want to get in a relationship based on this reason but hard to tell. Personally i'd take her out to a bar, and just hint at her, make some moves see what reactions you get back. For example one of my lines is 'How about a kiss' and point to my cheek. A good ice breaker and starts off the intimacy, especially if all you're doing is holding hands.
Versacehottie Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I say just go for it. Definitely with confidence that will make all the difference. I wouldn't ask for a kiss. Typically my friends and i don't like when guys do this. It's like they need a green light or something and is a sign of being unconfident, which is exactly why we are hesitating about the guy in the first place! Though in fairness to the guy who said it was his move above--with an English accent it would be completely adorable. And on a rare occasion a guy has done to me with a mischievous way about him and it was great. But in general, just go for it. 1
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