muffin Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I have a guy friend who recently needed a place to stay. A single female friend offered to let him stay at her house. He had other options but chose to take advantage of this friend's generosity, I doubt he helps her out with any rent since he has no job. She has had a crush on him for two years, and has offered her place before, if he needed somewhere to go. He knows how she feels about him but he isn't considering her feelings since he is dating someone else at the same time he is staying with her, which makes the situation seem foolish and unfair. Sadly, this woman doesn't seem to have any personal pride, she is very plain and kind of a tomboy type. She knows he would never date her, he made that clear to her in the past. Still, she's the kind who would be willing to take whatever crumbs she could get from someone and I'm sure she is lapping up every moment this guy is in her house, regardless. Does anyone think it's possible anything sexual is going on with the female friend? She tends to be aggressive and flirtatious. Any opinions from guys...is this something you would do or think other guys might do? Even if the woman is just a friend and is not very appealing?
FitChick Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 She's the kind who would be willing to take whatever crumbs she could get from someone and I'm sure she is lapping up every moment this guy is in her house That is how women like that get sex and attention. If he isn't exclusive with the other woman, he can justify having sex with his housemate.
Author muffin Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 To Jan May, no that is not it at all, no matter who gets action or how or for what reason, I don't care. These people are friends of mine and their feelings matter to me. I am simply seeking people's opinions on the situation.
elbe Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 It could happen - living with someone who is attracted to you would leave a lot of opportunity for nakedness, etc. If it is someone he really isn't into however he may get incredibly uncomfortable if she pulls any moves. Why is this your concern though? It is very nice of her to offer her place. As long as he isn't taking advantage of her generosity it really isn't a big deal. His supposed girlfriend doesn't have a problem with it? Or are you the girlfriend in this scenario... and if so why isn't he staying with you?
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