btvdts Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 ok people help me out here. When the ex broke up with me she asked if I could leave the very same day( we were on our second month of living together) because she didn't want to hurt the girls( her girls with ex husband) because I had just moved there two months earlier from 400 miles awayi really had nowhere to go but I still respected her choice and figured it out and left. now to fully understand the situation I stuck around Texas Bc of the relationship and where I moved from I didn't want to go back it was a dead end. I was basically broke from the move 2 months earlier and had to have help from the parents, but they said I needed to move to north Carolina . One week after the breakup I left Texas. the ex knew I was leaving yet never stopped me. I guess my question is did I rush off? if she were to change her mind, would me not even being close stop her from contacting me? she hasn't contacted me since I left. I think she broke up with me because she met someone else and wanted me gone so she could persue this guy but I'll never know for sure. i wanted to fight for her but she told the girls the same night I left. Not sure what she said to them but I figured she had made up her mind long before the breakup, which in a way I find weird Bc the night before she initiated sex and then I'm thrown out. sorry got off subject.
thompkevin Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Well, it seems that she is pretty rude to have asked you to move out after you moved from 400 miles away. But to answer your question, no staying there for longer wouldn't have helped in giving it another shot. If she wanted to give it another shot, she would've contacted you. She has more time to miss you when you are not there. If you were there, she would have been more worried about making you move out and not about giving it another try.
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