joanofark Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 just for curiosities sake, has anyone had quite a few and things just go on as normal? like you almost wonder when the next one will be an nothing will change on anyones end afterwards?
WakingUp Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 There was a fairly long term poster here who had had 19 D days. Yep, 19. Doubt anyone else can reach that number. I haven't seen her on here for ages, would love to know what happened. She seemed really nice, and had some caring and kind words. If she reads this, WF can you come back please?
hopewild Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 New here so excuse my ignorance. How do you have 19 D-days? Isn't D-day just the day that the affair is discovered? Isn't it only possible for that to happen once?
WakingUp Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Well I am not sure... you would have to go back and read her posts. White Flower. Earlier this year there was a fair bit of aggression at some of the longer term posters and a number of them disappeared. Shame really. I quite liked a few of them. In my situation, we have had one BIG D Day. But then there have been a few mini ones... I don't know, he has had to deal with them so I only know his side of the story. And I doubt he will be posting!
myname Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 New here so excuse my ignorance. How do you have 19 D-days? Isn't D-day just the day that the affair is discovered? Isn't it only possible for that to happen once? I had multiple d-days, in that after it was discovered the first time it was discovered again and again afterwards because he obviously assured her it'd stopped and then she's find out it was still going on, don't know how many but way too many times and I began to see it follow a pattern, and I'd say it was always the same. Very depressing. 1
hopewild Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 I had multiple d-days, in that after it was discovered the first time it was discovered again and again afterwards because he obviously assured her it'd stopped and then she's find out it was still going on, don't know how many but way too many times and I began to see it follow a pattern, and I'd say it was always the same. Very depressing. Wow. Sounds awful. Thanks for explaining.
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