irc333 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 This is in lieu for those women who are overly picky when dating. There's this one woman I knew in Meetup a couple of years ago. I recall her being on a dating site for quite some time and recently a friend of mine from a Hiking Meetup knew the current husband and the wife at the time. He was closer friends to the husband than the wife. He was being a wing man for the guy and said, "Hey, go talk to my friend , you should get to know him!" "Nah, he's not my type". He kept pushing until she said, "Oh, okay, I'll do it." rather reluctantly. After being given a gentle push by a friend to get to know each other, they actually hit it off...now...they are husband and wife. Figure that one out ladies, just think what would've happened if you had been in a situation like this and gave up so easily at getting to know a guy. lol Kind of joking in a sense, but it's kind of funny how easily women tend to pass up on their opportunities so easily as they've become prone to dismissing a dating prospect for any reason. 1
FitChick Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 females and blacks and religious people are liars. screw everyone. mixed throw up and diahria. I thought children were not allowed on this forum. 2
strongnrelaxed Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Wow. That escalated quickly. Back to point OP made, the story is not over. If a partner has to be cajoled into a relationship, that is a very bad sign. I don't care how long they have been together. She could be cheating, planning to leave, using him, or something else. That is not to say that these things are happening, but that they could be. One thing that continues to shock me is how long people can live a lie. It is un-f'ing- believable how people can put on a charade for decades. Scary actually. So let's stay tuned on this one. If she needed a nudge, then this is not a good thing. I would not want to marry a woman who was reluctant to date me at first. How must he feel inside about this in places he never admits to anyone else? How would YOU feel knowing this?
PinkInTheLimo Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 This is in lieu for those women who are overly picky when dating. There's this one woman I knew in Meetup a couple of years ago. I recall her being on a dating site for quite some time and recently a friend of mine from a Hiking Meetup knew the current husband and the wife at the time. He was closer friends to the husband than the wife. He was being a wing man for the guy and said, "Hey, go talk to my friend , you should get to know him!" "Nah, he's not my type". He kept pushing until she said, "Oh, okay, I'll do it." rather reluctantly. After being given a gentle push by a friend to get to know each other, they actually hit it off...now...they are husband and wife. Figure that one out ladies, just think what would've happened if you had been in a situation like this and gave up so easily at getting to know a guy. lol Kind of joking in a sense, but it's kind of funny how easily women tend to pass up on their opportunities so easily as they've become prone to dismissing a dating prospect for any reason. Do you really think that us women are so close-minded that we feel too good to just have a conversation with just a guy? We are not. But it is what happens during a conversation which makes us reject guys... A lot of guys are nasty, bossy, rude, sexist, drink too much, have a lousy job situation... Why would a woman who has a good life jeopardise it to get together with a guy who will mess that life up? 1
StanMusial Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Let's get real here. How many guys are goodlooking enough to where the woman feels that immediate strong attraction? Like 1 in 10? And that's being generous. Most of my ugly friends are married LOL, if they didn't get a shot at it somewhere down the line they would be screwed. Figuratively of course LOL sure as hell not literally. I am somewhat chagrined by some of these threads today.
snowflakes88 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 I don't think you know what "in lieu of" means.
Author irc333 Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 Where in the world did you get from MY post that this guy's life was messed up? This was bout the woman turning down, (twice) the opportunity to get to know someone's friend and had to be coerced into it by a wingman. Do you really think that us women are so close-minded that we feel too good to just have a conversation with just a guy? We are not. But it is what happens during a conversation which makes us reject guys... A lot of guys are nasty, bossy, rude, sexist, drink too much, have a lousy job situation... Why would a woman who has a good life jeopardise it to get together with a guy who will mess that life up?
xxoo Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Well, there's got to be something there initially to inspire interest. What is a woman going to do, give everyone a shot on the off chance that it'll work out? Why couldn't this guy get to know her on his own?
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