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napy666

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napy666 Established Member

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This is for the women. As we have all seen in TV and movies is that 1 girl who is dressed up in what I like to call a lazy attire, leggings, or sweat pants, sweat jackiet or hoodie, sneakers, hair up in a bun or ponytail no make up, glasses, or similar attire with a sweater and leggings, etc.

 

But yet that one hot guy walks up to them and asks them out and they end up married in the end of the show or movie.

 

Do you really think this sort of thing happens in real life?

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InnocentMan Established Member

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You need to watch some better movies.

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elbe Established Member

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Sweatpants can be cute..

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I think that if a man finds you physically attractive, he won't care what you're wearing. At least that's based on my experience. I wear leggings or sweats to the gym, and an old t shirt. I put my back into my workouts and break into a sweat. And of course, no makeup. And I still get guys hitting on me.

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This is for the women. As we have all seen in TV and movies is that 1 girl who is dressed up in what I like to call a lazy attire, leggings, or sweat pants, sweat jackiet or hoodie, sneakers, hair up in a bun or ponytail no make up, glasses, or similar attire with a sweater and leggings, etc.

 

But yet that one hot guy walks up to them and asks them out and they end up married in the end of the show or movie.

 

Do you really think this sort of thing happens in real life?

 

Movies and tv are all fake. Don't believe anything you see or hear in or on them.

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This is for the women. As we have all seen in TV and movies is that 1 girl who is dressed up in what I like to call a lazy attire, leggings, or sweat pants, sweat jackiet or hoodie, sneakers, hair up in a bun or ponytail no make up, glasses, or similar attire with a sweater and leggings, etc.

 

But yet that one hot guy walks up to them and asks them out and they end up married in the end of the show or movie.

 

Do you really think this sort of thing happens in real life?

 

My girlfriend looks super fit when she's dressed like that...just putting it out there :p:D

 

 

I think maybe I'm see her so much like dolled up, hair down, make up on...it makes me like when it's just her and me and she's wearing my hoodie, hair up, no make up - sexy!

 

I think as well when you see girls like that who are naturally beautiful, that natural beauty kinda shines! And I guess it's a confidence thing - shows that shies comfortable in her own skin

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I find everyday clothes more attractive on a woman than "dress up" clothes.

hotpotato Established Member

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Some men like sweat pants. Some men really like leggings, yoga pants, the like. :confused:

 

The woman napy describes sounds like a woman who is out jogging or lifting.

 

What are the movies in question?

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My girlfriend sent a funny picture, no make up, cross eyed with her tongue sticking out. It's sneaky my favorite picture of her right now, she's beautiful.

Mr Scorpio Established Member

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I'd much prefer a woman with no makeup or stylish clothing. To me, that indicates that she is: 1) low maintenance, 2) comfortable in her own skin, and 3) going to look great even with pillow-face.

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elbe Established Member

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Every time I see people who is poor, wearing ratty clothes, coming from some disadvantageous environment, etc. and they always have a SO if not a large family.

 

On the flip side of that I see many eligible men and women doomed to be alone forever. Go figure.

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If you're talking about people who meet at the gym or on their way home from some sort of exercise/sports practice then yes, it can happen.

 

I think some of the previous posts already said that some men find women most attractive when they're dressed down. Think about it, the girl in the sweats with no makeup and a ponytail is exactly what you'll see in the morning when she first wakes up. Not the girl who spent 3 hours getting ready to go out on a Friday night. I've heard some guys consider that a bait and switch, when the girl you go home with looks nothing like the girl you wake up with the next morning.

 

But I guess it depends on the individual and what they're looking for. It seems like guys who are attracted to a more natural, everyday look are usually searching for a partner and a LTR. Guys looking for someone dressed up 24/7 with perfect makeup might be looking for something less serious, or someone they can show off.

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Men don't notice these things as we do. Lets be honest, men just check out face - boobs - ass. I think they don't care less if you put on jeans, sweater or make up or you have your hair like this or like that.

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dichotomy Established Member

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Some men like sweat pants. Some men really like leggings, yoga pants, the like. :confused:

 

 

All men really like yoga pants......:love:

hotpotato Established Member

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All men really like yoga pants......:love:

 

lol

Didn't some company issue a buyer beware because their yoga pants were see through :lmao:

Mr Scorpio Established Member

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Most men will find a woman attractive no matter what she has on.

But the double standard rears its head once again......because women constantly whine that they want guys to like them for who they are....and not their body.....yet at the same time, they spend hours getting ready, to present themselves in a manner that they feel is visually appealing to men.

 

In fairness, I think most men will find an attractive woman (subject to individual taste of course) to be attractive no matter what she has on. Just because some guys don't care if a woman is dolled-up doesn't mean they don't care how a woman looks at all.

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Doesn't really matter what you're wearing, it's going to end up on the floor anyways.

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