kiterider12 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Met a girl 9 months ago and at the time my roommate was very into her. We all hung out all the time. She turned into a pretty good friend of mine. From week one this girl made it very clear to me she was unintrested in my roommate, then in july she flat out told him he had to back off. She and I still talk and hang out from time to time..if we do end up talking on the phone, we talk for a good while. She is a VERY southern girl and the guy needs to do all the work, I know that for a fact with her. During thanksgiving she invited me to have dinner with her family. which i took strictly as platonic. But i have strong family values and fell for her over dinner. Do i ask her out? and not worry about my roommates comments? he is currently deployed (thankful for his service)…but it is a no go for him…but I think there is a chance and want to ask her to accompany me to my companies holiday party. Thoughts?
MidwestUSA Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 She said she's not interested in your roommate. She asked you to her family's dinner. You don't need any more signs, ask her! 2
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I'd mention to the roomate that you will be doing this so he doesn't feel like you are going behind his back. Notice I didn't say ask his permission but do give him a heads up. 3
Author kiterider12 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 I too timid! an suggestions on how to bring it up?! I went to church with this girl last night (her idea) i picked her up and we went and made plans to attend for the next three weeks. Then today i had to bring my car to the shop and asked if she would drive me, she did, she drove over 1.5 hrs to pick me up and bring me home! I TRY not to read into things....but! on top of that with all this time I had not the balls to man up and ask her out! WHY!
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 She took a 1.5 hour round trip drive for you. Take the woman out to dinner to at least day thank you.
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