JOkER2 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 i asked this girl who i really like if she wanted to hang out she said yes. then she said text me. Is this a date? my intention was to ask her out but i screwed up and said hang out instead of go out. If she thinks just hang out as friends can it eventually turn into a date? My main goal is to have it a date but if she thinks its a hangout and i send her lets go outt to dinner then is it looking like im asking her out by text cuz that seems like i dont respect her enough to ask her face to face.
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Maybe. I think you should act like it is & see what happens. If she thinks it's just "hanging out" & intends to friendzone you, she will make that clear enough quickly. Good luck.
elbe Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 If it's not clearly defined then it is usually assumed between boys and girls that the hangout is a possible romance. You need to make it clear the first time you hang out (by your actions) what you are looking for.
Author JOkER2 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 So when i pick her up should i open the door for her? And when i text her should i ask her out to dinner and maybe a movie, that way she'll get the message right away?
krista28 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Ya its hard to say i once asked a guy out and he said it was just a hangout when i was thinking it was more of a date. you can usually tell of someo.someone's interested in yo very much.
Author JOkER2 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 so i probably should text her that we should go out to dinner and ill pick her up, right?
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Don't text. Call on the phone. Ask by text, PM, e-mail etc is not a great start.
Author JOkER2 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 She sent me a message asking if I'm going to a work party I asked her if she wanted to go she responded with u so I sent her ya and she said sure:). So she prob thinks tomorrow is a date right
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 No she dosen't think that is a date She thinks that she will be seeing the cute guy she likes at a party. Hope you had fun.
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