btvdts Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 so today is my ex's daughters birthday. she dumped me a little over a month ago and I went straight to NC. the way she ended the relationship really tore me up. she basically threw me out with nowhere to go. at the time, because of the shock and sadness I obviously didn't realize how much of a an ASS she was for doing me that way. we dated for a two and a half and it took a long time for the daughter to finally like me.(she wanted her mom to herself . its funny bc the one thing i'll always remember is how I was at home the night before the break up blow drying her hair (shes ten today) and getting her dinner ready she could go to her friends house. we were dancing outside the house when her friend pulled up to pick her up. we used to text each other when I was at work and I'd always take her out to the park and etc. the day we broke up I never heard from her again. I'm guessing the ex erased my number on her daughters phone. anyways the point is. its the worst feeling because I feel like I got dumped by two people at once. I know the little girl didn't have anything to do with it, and I wish I could wish her a happy birthday today but I feel like that would be wrong because in a way she also has to move on. any thoughts? ps. maybe also I'm worried that it would take me back to square one talking to the daughter.
d0nnivain Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 that's really sweet that you miss the daughter. But you are right, for your own peace of mind, you can't do anything about it. Also it would confuse the kid.
elbe Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Do not text her daughter! You did get dumped by both of them. I understand your misery and it is very sad. Cry your tears and begin your quest to your new family.
mikejensen3355 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I know how you feel man. My ex had 2 amazing little kids, 4 and 7. I miss them so much. We worked different hours and she worked later than I did so I'd pick them up from school, take them to the park, take them on trips, all kinds of stuff. I think I'd be over this if not for them. It's so hard knowing I'll never see them again. I have no idea how to get over it.
Author btvdts Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 yea man breaking up with someone with children is tough! Feels like a divorce but I'll never get to see the kids again. I miss them everyday especially at night when I'd tuck them in. I don't have children myself so my new place is very quiet now which still hurts. It's been a month and in time I'll heal as well as you man but it feels ten times harder!
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