krista28 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Okay so...recently I kinda got together with a guy from work ..i thought he was nice...we wwre texting a lot...but. we slept together ..and then he kinda started ignoring me...well until my frien threatened him. i know everyone's not into everyone ...but i had a crush on him for a long time ...and we went out and it seemed he kinda didn't appreciate me so...my friend threatened him...we now work together from time to time . i worked with him yesterday ...and it wasn't akward just hard. i still do like him..and i did see him look at me a couple times. he's 42 and I'm 29. i know sometimes a guy just doesn't like you...but i feel something. is there. i tried flirting with other guys at work to see if that would help. Don't think it did. but i see it in his face..even though I'm pretty sure he's dating other people. he hasn't,had a gf in 5 Years so. i dunno. it just hurts i guess the guys a dink. i don't know why i want him back..maybe cuz it hurts to see him.
Gallaxia Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Mixing business with pleasure can be a slippery slope & dangerous game. Think long and hard if this guy is even worth losing your job over. If company policy allows it or not, it could get so awkward between the two of you that your misery will force you out of the job just to be able to breathe. You said you're now trying to flirt with other coworkers to get a reaction out of him, right? Tread lightly. This has the potential to get messy. Just something to consider...
MidwestUSA Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Krista, refer back to the 15+ threads that you've already made on this. I think it's time for you to find another job. Seriously. It's entirely possible that this guy wants to get laid again, despite the drama that rained on his head after the first time (from you and your crazy friend). You had so much anxiety and were physically ill about having to go to work!! Why go back there? (BTW, the word 'help' is edited out of thread titles. That's why so many of yours are unclear. 'Help me' is pretty generic)
Author krista28 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 Midwest you are completely right. its one thing to date a d bag and another at your work. its Just hard to see him cuz there were real feelings there on my end. i guess you are rigjt...best to just chin up and not worry about it..pain fades and he's a player that's his game. i did a really dangerous thing that got us both in a bit of trouble at work..as much as it hurts....karma will get him like u said.
Author krista28 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 And i will stop the flirting with other coworkers to get a rise out of him. he was doing it to me...so i retaliated.
MidwestUSA Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Midwest you are completely right. its one thing to date a d bag and another at your work. its Just hard to see him cuz there were real feelings there on my end. i guess you are rigjt...best to just chin up and not worry about it..pain fades and he's a player that's his game. i did a really dangerous thing that got us both in a bit of trouble at work..as much as it hurts....karma will get him like u said. Print out what you just wrote here, and keep it with you. You're making a lot of sense. Good luck!
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