neha mal Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I have been in a relationship with this guy for above an year. we were friends for around two years before we fell into the relation. after about sometime. he was very conservative and had problem even if i wear sleeveless dresses. i changed myself for him, behaved and looked the way he wanted. to start with we used to fight a lot over silly matters and we kind of broke up four months before. i could not imagine of surviving without him. i begged and he said we will give the relation another chance. i sometimes feel he is heartless.I ve been crying over him and he says he can survive without me. and he is not desperate to be with me as much as i am. last month he again said this relationship is not what he wants. he wants apace and i am not giving him that. i again cried and tried calling him. he didn’t attend my calls and blocked me. Yesterday i texted him i wont try anymore and I am officially moving on with my life as i have realized that there is no future for us. He called me back and said its not that i don’t love you but i am tried and sick of the fights and i want both of us to move on in life. and i need you to take a break from me for six month and enjoy my life and all. I lost my patience and said i don’t want your sympathy and i will move on with my life. Please don’t contact me ever and u are never going to get me back. this happened yesterday and i have been desp from morning. i feel like calling him and speaking to him. i don’t know. Its has been not even a day and still i cannot do it. how will i do it for above a month??? help me…!!! is the No Contact rule going to changes things and will it make him come back??
TaraMaiden Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I have been in a relationship with this guy for above an year. we were friends for around two years before we fell into the relation. after about sometime. he was very conservative and had problem even if i wear sleeveless dresses. i changed myself for him, behaved and looked the way he wanted. Bad idea. Very bad. He called me back and said its not that i don’t love you but i am tried and sick of the fights and i want both of us to move on in life. and i need you to take a break from me for six month and enjoy my life and all. I lost my patience and said i don’t want your sympathy and i will move on with my life. Please don’t contact me ever and u are never going to get me back. Good idea. Very good. this happened yesterday and i have been desp from morning. i feel like calling him and speaking to him. i don’t know. Its has been not even a day and still i cannot do it. how will i do it for above a month??? help me…!!! is the No Contact rule going to changes things and will it make him come back?? The No Contact rule will change you into a better person, and no, it will NOT make him come back. You have to hope and pray it doesn't, because thast's not what it's for. Read all about it in my signature. And stick to it, with every shred of will-power you can summon up.
Author neha mal Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 but i want him back.. somehow.. i just want him to be mine again.!! Advises!! please
Salvatore85 Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 but i want him back.. somehow.. i just want him to be mine again.!! Advises!! please Why would you want someone back who doesn't love you for whom you are? He made you change yourself for no apparent reason, that's not love. 2
TaraMaiden Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 but i want him back.. somehow.. i just want him to be mine again.!! Advises!! please If you want him back, you have to let him go, improve your self-worth, self-esteem, dignity and show him you're too good for him. In other words, you have to transform yourself into the kind of woman that has a man, but doesn't need one. If you carry on like this, you're just needy, clingy, desperate and totally undesirable. Evolve into the person you know you can be. Don't reduce yourself to something you are not. 2
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