liltipper Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I'm physically disabled. I can walk but I have weak hands and have difficulty getting around. However, there's many things I can do. I look at things from a different perspective. I overcome many challenges but the hardest thing I've faced is just meeting someone who will accept me. Much of my social group has moved on and away. Recently I put a lot on hoping someone would come around and open her eyes and give me a chance, but she didn't, and it has me down. I got to know her, but I feel she made no attept to reciprocate. It's tough for me to approach people. I study Engineering, so it's just a dudesfest. I find I just friendzone myself a lot because I'm afraid of making a move. I feel completely discouraged at the moment. It's hard to say keep going with your head up as that is what I've been doing. The past 10 years feel the same. What's the best way to put yourself out there? I know it's a tough thing for anyone. 1
Shaine Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 As long as you have a great personality you can attract women. Some women even find disabled men cute. These are women who have strong mothering instinct or like instinct to care. Im not saying you use your disability to get women out of pity. What im actually saying is that disability doesnt affect your dating chance that much. If someone finds out your disability but you are still a great person, they will like you. Just think positive thoughts and smile. You will attract good things if stay positive. 1
Author liltipper Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 (edited) is there anyone still around through your last 10 difficult years? It's a tough one. Not really. All have moved on, married, or moved away. I have a few acquaintances, not anyone I can call up or hang out with. I'm very sociable but but not social. It helps I have a close family. I'm still having trouble from being rejected yesterday. You hope one person would hear you out for a second. I let her know that I liked her as a friend. I don't know what happened, nice one day then refuses to acknowledge my existence... complete failure of social courtesy or kindness. Maybe she thinks I like her more than that and is refusing to hear me out because she doesn't want to say no... I'm just spinning myself in discouragement realizing I don't really have anything to fall back on. Edited December 1, 2013 by liltipper 1
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