Ansem Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Hello everybody, this will probably be my last time posting here (for now). So I'll explain everything as fast as possible Mid July: Ex breaks up with me via text and initiates NC with me. I don't question it and she never offers a reason for the breakup. Late August: This is around the time we started school again and I enter my pleading/begging phase. She ignores me for around two days before replying and agreeing to meet. When we finally meet she tells me that she "doesn't want to be in a relationship right now" so I end up leaving on the verge of tears. I told her I would leave her alone and no longer bother her. Couple days pass by and I couldn't contain myself so I ended up texting her under the false pretense that I'd like to be friends. Conversation was light and had her laughing but then I realized what a mistake that was, thanks to you guys. Early Sept: Around 2-3 weeks after that I ended up running into her at a store; her back was facing me so I walked up and lightly tapped her on the arm. We exchanged hugs and said hello/goodbye and I went on about my business. Ended up seeing each other in line again but I didn't say anything; before leaving she glanced back again - that was the last time I saw her. Late Sept: She texts me happy birthday and I reply with a thank you - nothing else, and she says no problem (what kind of response is that?). October: (Early) I don't return her happy birthday wishes and continue with NC. (Late) I notice she unblocks me from FB and I receive 2 restricted calls but I don't answer. Couple days later she texts me to ask how I am doing but again, I ignore. Nov: Texts me Happy Thanksgiving even though she doesn't celebrate it. I still have feelings for her and cannot decide whether I should tell her to stop contacting me and move on for good or whether I should try to work things out with her. She's always been a proud person and what troubles me the most is that she might have ended things because of her friend's/current roommate's influence and she won't say anything meaningful to me because she's afraid to admit she might have been wrong. I can't see her as the type of person to leave breadcrumbs for the sake of stroking her ego - she was far too nice and gentle for that. I now want to take the time to show my appreciation for what you guys do around here. This community has been great in offering honest advice, comfort and a place to share things I would have trouble sharing with other people. You guys are great but I think its time for me to take another step forward. I often found myself looking around this site for any sense of hope that would indicate my own relationship could take a turn for the better but I find that by reading some of your threads, in return I think about my ex. Thank you for all your help and I promise that one day I will return to offer any help I can for those that are heartbroken. If you guys have any question I'll be happy to respond but I think that come Monday I will have made my decision in regards to my previous question. Thanks again!
thompkevin Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I hope you are doing well and have decided to move on. If not, I still wish you best for whatever you chose.
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