vanhalenfan Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I have a feeling I am about to get dumped by my boyfriend of 7 months. I am devastated and just a walking zombie. I'm not sure how it's going to happen, but I've been receiving warning signals for the past 2 weeks that something isn't quite right. So...I am preparing myself. I've never felt this way before about anyone previously. I honestly don't know how I am going to move on... The problem I have is I CAN'T go no contact because our lives are so entwined in work, Church, etc. It will be impossible. How am I going to get through this? I know I won't/can't be able to see him while trying to get over him. I regret even getting involved with someone so entwined in my life. Help....
elbe Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Yikes.. lesson learned, eh? Is it definitely over? You could take the initiative and dump him first. This may empower you a bit, but ultimately you will need to face the world as a single person even when he's around. You may see him but you can still maintain no contact. Just act like he's not there. You gotta get this started the sooner the better. Also, start working out. The zombie thing is manic depression. Working out will help!!!
Braveheart01 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Whoa. Don't dump him yet if you are not sure. Agree with above post though that you have to start working out with him. Maybe ask him is there anything wrong? Communications do wonders.
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