Author Weightlesswings Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 He just "accidentally" called me. I'm not sure if it was on purpose or not but I felt like it was weird his phone would accidentally call me out of all people.
mtnbiker3000 Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Cancel lunch with a vague excuse. Be firm. Go NC and terminate all contact from now on. For how long? Well, until you move on and regain power. Until you are no longer co-dependent. Until you can see the RS and BU clearly. Then you will be in a position to make a wise decision. If he's gone by then, so be it... Next!!!
nevergoodenough Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Me and my ex broke up 5 days ago neither of us cheated or anything bad it was just a stupid "friend" meddling and causing too much unnecessary dramas constantly and after 10 months he's had enough. Today I saw him to get some stuff of mine back from him and he told me he still loves me of course and still has feelings for me and they just haven't gone away because we are broken up and I'm not like any other girl but he didn't mention of us ever getting back together which he knows is what I want. Why would he say that if he knows I still love him and he doesn't want to be with me that's unfair. He also asked to hang out Sunday and go for lunch. What does all this mean? How can I get him back? 1) He said it to make you feel better People don't typically leave someone and tell them they don't love them anymore. So they say it to be nice/ cushion the blow. 2) Maybe he does love you and just can't be with you because of something you did Either way, this is where you are. I have exs that love me and they are not with me. I don't doubt their love for me, I find understanding in why it is that we cannot be together. Typically, that's due to something I did very wrong.
Author Weightlesswings Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 1) He said it to make you feel better People don't typically leave someone and tell them they don't love them anymore. So they say it to be nice/ cushion the blow. 2) Maybe he does love you and just can't be with you because of something you did Either way, this is where you are. I have exs that love me and they are not with me. I don't doubt their love for me, I find understanding in why it is that we cannot be together. Typically, that's due to something I did very wrong. I haven't done anything wrong. Neither of us did, that's the thing. He's already liking girls photos on Facebook and Instagram which really hurts my feelings because if he loved me he wouldn't be doing that. Unless it's his way with coping?
Author Weightlesswings Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 Today was the day I was meant to have lunch with my ex. I contacted him this morning with a message asking "are you still up for lunch today?" And he didn't reply. My friend showed me a picture of him and a friend out in a car together. Why ask me out for lunch then not even bother to reply? The day he asked me if I wanted to he also told me he still loved me and misses me and that I'm still his princess etc. I had a speech planned out to say to him "I don't want to just be friends I want to be your girlfriend. From now I do not want any contact with you unless it is to fix our relationship and get back together." Now I don't know what to do? I still want him back and it's only been a week tomorrow that we have been broken up and today is the first day we have not spoken.
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