Situation I have been dealing with last few months (Why I prefer no female friends)

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There is a coworker I have known for about 3 years. We became friends and everything was cool. Everyone there noticed she liked me. I kind of brushed it off and figured she wasn't into me. I finally noticed it was beyond some flirting. We talked about everything anyway, but she finally came out and said she liked me. I felt the same way but every time she was talking to someone. She got mad if I talked to some of the other female coworkers. It was always her choosing between me and some other guy and choosing them. I went out of my way and did thing I never do like get birthday presents, valentines, I would buy breakfast. I just did things to let her know. We would go out to eat after work. I recently told her that I was in love with her. She told me just forget about it. When I asked why she said it was better that way. I asked what's the worst that could happen if we got together. I was hurt. Yesterday I asked why you never answered me. She said I said forget it. I just looked at her and said that she wasted my time. If she had been real with me from the beginning it would have been cool. All she could do was shake her head.

 

I was talking with someone and made a bullsh*t females comment when one of the PT people talked to me. Then I made a status on facebook saying: Funny how people complain about the stuff people do and it's exactly the same thing they are doing to others. I will admit it was directed at her because she complained about guys playing games and she did the same thing. I pride myself on being honest even if it hurts someone. Lies hurt worse.

 

I'm not real big on female friends because personally either they act like they like me and when I do they play games or they actually do like me. I never had a friendship that was truly a friendship.

[joystickd]

My thing is why get mad at the truth

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I look back at it and I think she liked the attention and got upset when I finally put her in a put up or shut up position. Before then it was "I'll think about it" or "I don't know". It's all or nothing for me I will not accept being reduced to an orbiter. Then hated the fact that I told her that she wasted my time. It was the truth. Why get upset?

 

I'm real big on honesty. She had some responsibility that if she didn't feel that way about me then not accept the things I'm offering.

[joystickd]

Yeah, you should stop being yourself when dating. Girls don't like that.

 

If you want to be yourself and still succeed, then you'll have to date outside of the western world.

So I should lie?

[joystickd]

It depends on what you want from them.

 

I have some female friends that I talk to often. We're attracted to each other, but I never make a move (and don't want to). Instead, we talk to each other on the phone for hours about others that we're dating.

 

It's kind of like an "emotional affair". I generally don't have female friends that I'm not attracted to at all.

I just gave up on the female friends thing a long time ago. This just confirms my beliefs

[love1336x]

Lol. Even when you are female having female friends suck!

I know I have some drama going in my life currently because of female friends.

 

 

Back to your co worker she was attention whore. Lol.

Beside your never suppose to mix work with pleasure. ;P

[joystickd]

Lol. Even when you are female having female friends suck!

I know I have some drama going in my life currently because of female friends.

 

 

Back to your co worker she was attention whore. Lol.

Beside your never suppose to mix work with pleasure. ;P

Lately thats the only place i have some success. I think because of the job I do I demonstrate skills that make me a potential partner to be in a relationship with. It's harder for me to do that outside of work.

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She finally apologized. She said she font know if she would ever feel the way i do so she dont want me to miss out on an opportunity of going out with someone else. Ive worked for 16 hours excuse the spelling