madaniela Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Hi, I'm a new member in this forum. I need your help. I'm so depressed. So here's what happened. I'm a physician and I work 24h shifts, one day a colleague of mine asked me to replace her in her shift. There's this guy that works on her shift that I kinda liked him. So I spent 24h with him, we talked, laughed, etc. And at night we slept in the same room and we cuddled, and hold hands. For the next couple of days he texted me, and then out of the blue he stopped. And now rumors are that there's something going on with him and my colleague! I felt so used and rejected, everytime I ser him I want to punch him in the face, but I pretend I don't care and that I'm happy, but I'm so sad on the inside. I can't look at them I try to avoid him as much as possible. I'm even considering working at another hospital. I don't know why I feel like this it's not like we where on a relationship. I want to get over him but it hurts so much. Please help how do I do it. And to make matters worse I failed an exam and that really destroyed me. I need to get over him so I can start studying again. Please help i need advice. If there's errors sorry english is not my first language.
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 You are a physician and have a very important job to do. Your work is more important than any one human being - so let your work consume you. Think about your patients instead of yourself - become an extrovert. You will get over this nonsense and become better at your practice at the same time. In the future, look for love outside of the workplace. The two are a toxic mix.
Author madaniela Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 You're right. It's nonsense. I'll focus on my career and my studies. I will not seek love again. I know I'll get over this, just wish it was faster. Thankyou
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