kev1983 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Hi need help don't what to do for the best. Been with the girlfriend for 13 years and we have three kids together and we split up six weeks ago. We split because arguments about her not helping out with the house I did a lot if not all of it. Which meant I was up early with kids and not getting home from work till 10.I told her I was finding it hard because of the new job I got. All she does is throw things at from years ago its like she won't give me a really reason for us splitting up because it was only for few day we was arguing over the house and we have been through a lot worst. And for the last few weeks I've been at her house loads because she rings or text me something about the kids. I've been helping with the house and the kids . Should I being helping her so much or should I leave her to it ? And just have the kids on my days off. would do anything to make it work and I'm finding it hard to let go and she knows it
fixing Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 If she knows you love her and want to make it work then i reckon you should back off for a while. Take the kids on your days off and become less available to her. If you say you do almost all the work with the house and the kids, then maybe she needs to realise that herself by you not being there for her every second she calls. So she ended the relationship? Than you should definitely back away for a while and just be there for the kids on your days off.
Author kev1983 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Thanks for the advice. Yes she ended it. I find it hard because I'm missing my kids loads and there missing me and hurting, but I will stop being there as much
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