aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I emailed this psychic and I was very sceptical at first but when I received an email back I was shocked about how much it sounded like my ex. I was allowed to ask 2 questions and the answers I received were not what I was hoping for but they have allowed me to give up hope and move on. Here is the email I received. Btw I have replaced my exes name with 'X' 1) Does my ex girlfriend regret breaking up with me? Aaron, X seems to have been unable to truly feel comfortable with allowing herself to open up and be vulnerable to you. Her need to pull back and priorities her life was more so a need to pull back to protect herself from getting too close which would have caused her to be more vulnerable to you and her feelings for you than she wanted to be. She was not certain of her decision and so she does regret how things ended up. But she does not regret her decision. She justifies her decision by feeling she made it for her own well being, not really noticing that she does not feel particularly happier than before. The core of her issues lie in her not being certain of what she wanted and how that permeated fear around her decisions to be with you or not. There was guilt around her also when it came to being with you which for some reason worked on her mind. 2) Is she thinking about getting back together with me at all or has she completely moved on? X thinks in a way that allows her to be inconsistent in her actions but see the rightness in that. This is not to say she is not able to see reality, but she is good at justifying certain outcomes. In her mind, this was something that had to happen for her to find peace and happiness. And so because of this she does not feel as though she can go back and reconnect with you as it would only leave her vulnerable again. So, she is not thinking of getting back together but I sensed she missed you greatly. There is a stubbornness there which would have me believe she is trying to talk herself into believing she's much more okay with this than she is. Her energy around this topic specifically was tempestuous so these feelings and thoughts are likely to shift back and forth depending on her life outside of this relationship. There were definite feelings of love there, and a deeper sense of longing when it comes to being with you. But, there was also a determination in her which speaks of her intentions of keeping a distance. This was not as positive as i would have liked it to be but I wanted to be honest with you about what I was sensing. I hope what I picked up was helpful in better understanding your situation. There are much deeper layers here than simply what you see in her inconsistencies and pleas for distance. There is a feeling of fear in her of being hurt which operates a lot of her behavior in personal relationships. There are ways to heal these types of things but they require time, effort, patience and the ability to be self aware of what you may have done to help facilitate some of these less than healthy behaviors you saw in her actions. I am actually shocked at how much these answers sound exactly what my ex would be thinking. It sounds like she doe not regret it so I can find inner peace now and finally move on... 1
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Seriously? Did you pay money for this? This is classic "cold" reading. The "psychic" has given you an answer you want to hear, whilst throwing up tired cliches about why people break up with us. They've done classic circular talking that has basically summed up the feelings of what every person, who dumps another person, feels. If this helps you to move on, great. But i'd google "cold reading" if i were you... No it was free. And actually it wasn't the answer I was hoping for. I was hoping to get something along the lines of her wanting me back butfrom the reading, it looks like she doesn't. I'd never pay for a reading, I'm way to skeptical about pshyics but my curiosity got the better of me this time. 1
Haydn Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 So you have done all this yourself? You are very knowlegable. Seriously? Did you pay money for this? This is classic "cold" reading. The "psychic" has given you an answer you want to hear, whilst throwing up tired cliches about why people break up with us. They've done classic circular talking that has basically summed up the feelings of what every person, who dumps another person, feels. If this helps you to move on, great. But i'd google "cold reading" if i were you...
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Why would a psychic over email know if your ex wants to get back together or not? This is what he said before answering the questions: Thanks again for contacting me to look into this for you. I want to explain a bit about how my talent works so you can better understand how I assessed your questions. I am a retrocognitive clairvoyant. I am the type of intuitive who can see visions or symbols in my mind which represent past and present events, facts, thoughts or feelings. I see lines of color which represent the life energy we all have and can see from how the lines look and how they behave how you both connected and dealt with each other. I can also draw out extrapolations in my mind during a trance state of probable outcomes based on trends of how the energy was and is moving. So, I can give probable outcomes but this is not the same as precognitive intuitive who see visions of probable future events. I only see trend lines and extrapolate. I see visions of the past and present but only precognitive clairvoyants see visions of the future. So my talent is subtly different as I don't give real predictions at all because I don't see visions of the future. I like to be very clear about my limitations.
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 His limitations are that he is no better at seeing people's "life energy" than i am at flying in the air. Particularly over email. Just how much of your aura can he see? You think he'd at least have a webcam... I know, I have never believed in psychics at all, let alone getting a reading over email. But the way he talked about my ex, especially her stubbornness and not knowing what she wanted sounded exactly like her. I spoke to her nan a few days after the BU and she even told me my ex doesn't know what she wants and is very confused. Also the psychic mentioned her determination to keep her distance from me. She blocked me from facebook, told me to leave her alone and not talk to her again...It just sounds so much like her.
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I must be psychic because those are the answers I could have given you. I bet there are tons of psychics on LS by those standards. 2
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 There are loads of more in-depth articles about cold reading, but start with the good description on ol' Wikipedia... Cold reading - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia OP, you live in the UK, you must know who Derren Brown is... Yeah I know who he is but don't know an awful lot about him. This article is about if you are in a presence of a psychic. How do you explain an email reading? Is it really just general advice hey give to everyone? It describes my ex almost perfectly though. Surely all dumpers aren't the same. Some people dump because they have been cheated on, been physically abused, met someone new, or simply have just fallen out of love. So I am not sure what to beleive. I have always been against psychics thinking how stupid it all is but this has made me question it.
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 OP, i want to talk more about this, but it's late. I'll revisit this again later. :-) Im going to do a little experiment. I am going to email him again under a completely different email address and will give him a random girls name but ask him similar questions to what I asked and I'll see what he has to say. 1
RDawg Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Excellent idea, that should be very interesting!
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Excellent idea, that should be very interesting! I want to find out if he spews out the same 'insights' to everyone. Because it is free, i doubt he is a con artist but I don't see what he is gaining from this. If he emails back saying he can't seem to find this girl or that she doesn't exist then my curiousity will have peaked even more lol He emails back within 24 hours so I'll post his response here when I get it.
RDawg Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Cool. Incidentally when I first read the title to this thread I thought it said a psychic had nailed your ex up against a tree - so pleased that wasn't the case!
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Cool. Incidentally when I first read the title to this thread I thought it said a psychic had nailed your ex up against a tree - so pleased that wasn't the case! I wish he had and made her pour every single one of her thoughts and feelings out haha!
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 This is off the wall advice. It suits my ex perfectly too! It's a one size fits all scam! Just like star sign readings. Read your start sign and you think "oh that fits perfectly, must be true". Then read the other star signs as if they're yours and they all fit too.
Author aaron11892 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 This is off the wall advice. It suits my ex perfectly too! It's a one size fits all scam! Just like star sign readings. Read your start sign and you think "oh that fits perfectly, must be true". Then read the other star signs as if they're yours and they all fit too. I read my horoscope everyday and it rarely has similarities to my life at all. Maybe one day a week it has some sort of relevance but not much at all really.
Never Again Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 OP, I'll jump on the bandwagon a bit to say that this would nearly fit my ex as well. I mean, look at the phrasing - there's no indication from what he says about why or how the breakup took place. No mention or anger, sadness, a fight, faded feelings, etc. Just a "she didn't feel comfortable" blanket statement. I'm sure I could tell you "I'm sensing another energy around her. There's a friend that's giving her really bad advice and making this problem worse." and you'd immediately think of some friend your ex MUST have that would be a problem.
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I am so glad you had the opportunity to speak to Mondez. He is a great man. :-)
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Actually this person is extremely accurate, but I'm not here to convince anybody, only to prove a fact. Three of my friends have talked to him, completely different situations from one another and he was spot on. He couldn't have made it up. One girl had a friend she knew for 10 years, but he currently has a gf. Mondez had sensed there was a girlfriend around him during the read and straight up told her the deal. It's your own choice to believe them or not and I would be careful with trying to trick them. If you don't believe him, don't talk to him. It's that simple. This person is also a psychologist and has helped me immensely with my broken heart and has never told me what I wanted to hear, but what I needed to hear. I have talked to many psychics who always told me a lie, giving me false hope. This person is hear to help you, not betray you. These types of clairvoyants do exist, but also negative people exist too, so to convince someone of something is damn near impossible. The option is there for you to take and it's free. Nothing more, nothing less.
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 OP, I'll jump on the bandwagon a bit to say that this would nearly fit my ex as well. I mean, look at the phrasing - there's no indication from what he says about why or how the breakup took place. No mention or anger, sadness, a fight, faded feelings, etc. Just a "she didn't feel comfortable" blanket statement. I'm sure I could tell you "I'm sensing another energy around her. There's a friend that's giving her really bad advice and making this problem worse." and you'd immediately think of some friend your ex MUST have that would be a problem. Thing is, his free readings are not as detailed as his paid ones. He gives you a chance to feel connected with him as an introductory, a glance in what he could offer you. You pay $20 for a question and you get a very detailed, precise email back. And free follow ups.
KatZee Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 This is a very classic cold read. Virtually EVERYONE who has been dumped, can sit here and read what this "psychic" told you and relate to it. I mean s.hit, that reading fits my ex to a T as well. Listen, I'm not saying I don't believe in psychics, I do. But most are very talented cold readers, very few really have a "gift." I personally have my own psychic reader and when I ask questions, he does not give me such broad and general answers. He will literally spit out names, situations that have happened with us, etc etc. I do however enjoy knowing that this reading was free. I would have felt terrible if this person preyed on your situation to earn money.
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 This is a very classic cold read. Virtually EVERYONE who has been dumped, can sit here and read what this "psychic" told you and relate to it. I mean s.hit, that reading fits my ex to a T as well. Listen, I'm not saying I don't believe in psychics, I do. But most are very talented cold readers, very few really have a "gift." I personally have my own psychic reader and when I ask questions, he does not give me such broad and general answers. He will literally spit out names, situations that have happened with us, etc etc. I do however enjoy knowing that this reading was free. I would have felt terrible if this person preyed on your situation to earn money. He isn't a psychic, he is a retrocognitive clairvoyant, he can't see the future, but can only feel the current feelings or past feelings. Curious, what psychics do you talk to and where did you find them? It would be interesting for people to just do a free reading with him and share what he has told you all...What's a free reading gonna hurt you?
mtnbiker3000 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I spoke to her nan a few days after the BU and she even told me my ex doesn't know what she wants and is very confused. Being 'confused' is such a BS reason for a BU. All it means is that your ex wanted to see what else is out there and still have you here to fall back on on. You're second prize. Sitting on the back burner. Get it? Not so confusing is it? 1
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Being 'confused' is such a BS reason for a BU. All it means is that your ex wanted to see what else is out there and still have you here to fall back on on. You're second prize. Sitting on the back burner. Get it? Not so confusing is it? It's hard to understand when your mind is clouded with misconceptions...
KatZee Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 He isn't a psychic, he is a retrocognitive clairvoyant, he can't see the future, but can only feel the current feelings or past feelings. Curious, what psychics do you talk to and where did you find them? It would be interesting for people to just do a free reading with him and share what he has told you all...What's a free reading gonna hurt you? If he can't see the future then what business does this person have telling you that your ex is going to remain distant and not come back to you? If he can't see the future then he shouldn't and couldn't be telling you this. I talk to A psychic. Not plural. He was a friend of the family and I met him that way. Free readings actually DO hurt people because some people are so hurt, so broken, that they latch onto anything a so called "psychic" or "clairvoyant" tells them. It's not healthy for some people at all. I have a friend that I recommended my psychic to. He went to him and for the next few months all he did was rehash over and over what he had been told. He basically sat around checking boxes off on his calendar waiting for some event that the psychic told him could happen. And when it DIDN'T happen, it threw him into a depression. Some people are so ready and willing to grasp onto hope, false promises, and tons of people don't really even understand what a psychic is. NO psychic can accurately foretell the future, because everyone on this planet has free will. When a psychic reads someone, they are reading them at that moment only. 10 minutes from then, their entire life path could be completely changed, and a reading done 10 minutes from the first could be completely different. 2
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Katzee, I'm sorry you feel that way. It works for some and for others it doesn't..
AnyaNova Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I emailed this psychic and I was very sceptical at first but when I received an email back I was shocked about how much it sounded like my ex. I was allowed to ask 2 questions and the answers I received were not what I was hoping for but they have allowed me to give up hope and move on. Here is the email I received. Btw I have replaced my exes name with 'X' 1) Does my ex girlfriend regret breaking up with me? Aaron, X seems to have been unable to truly feel comfortable with allowing herself to open up and be vulnerable to you. Her need to pull back and priorities her life was more so a need to pull back to protect herself from getting too close which would have caused her to be more vulnerable to you and her feelings for you than she wanted to be. She was not certain of her decision and so she does regret how things ended up. But she does not regret her decision. She justifies her decision by feeling she made it for her own well being, not really noticing that she does not feel particularly happier than before. The core of her issues lie in her not being certain of what she wanted and how that permeated fear around her decisions to be with you or not. There was guilt around her also when it came to being with you which for some reason worked on her mind. 2) Is she thinking about getting back together with me at all or has she completely moved on? X thinks in a way that allows her to be inconsistent in her actions but see the rightness in that. This is not to say she is not able to see reality, but she is good at justifying certain outcomes. In her mind, this was something that had to happen for her to find peace and happiness. And so because of this she does not feel as though she can go back and reconnect with you as it would only leave her vulnerable again. So, she is not thinking of getting back together but I sensed she missed you greatly. There is a stubbornness there which would have me believe she is trying to talk herself into believing she's much more okay with this than she is. Her energy around this topic specifically was tempestuous so these feelings and thoughts are likely to shift back and forth depending on her life outside of this relationship. There were definite feelings of love there, and a deeper sense of longing when it comes to being with you. But, there was also a determination in her which speaks of her intentions of keeping a distance. This was not as positive as i would have liked it to be but I wanted to be honest with you about what I was sensing. I hope what I picked up was helpful in better understanding your situation. There are much deeper layers here than simply what you see in her inconsistencies and pleas for distance. There is a feeling of fear in her of being hurt which operates a lot of her behavior in personal relationships. There are ways to heal these types of things but they require time, effort, patience and the ability to be self aware of what you may have done to help facilitate some of these less than healthy behaviors you saw in her actions. I am actually shocked at how much these answers sound exactly what my ex would be thinking. It sounds like she doe not regret it so I can find inner peace now and finally move on... With the notable exception of the gender difference, I think your psychic may actually have been reading my ex. I don't know. To me, I am always too suspicious that psychics true talent is in figuring out exactly what it is we want to hear (with a few things that we don't thrown in to keep our suspicions low) and telling us those things. Perhaps this is a good read of your ex. However, be aware that the psychic may be doing a much better job of reading you, than your ex. I am also curious how has knowledge aided your healing?
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