btvdts Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 ok I have a question. when my ex dumped me I had just moved in with her 2 months prior. she knew my finical status at the time and still kicked me out. I had to basically sleep on couches for a week until I could move out. I had to move out while she was at work and her two girls were at school. I left on a Wednesday and didn't come back till the following Monday to get my things. when I got to the house all my pictures were gone. I saw the necklace I have her on the night stand. during the week I was out of the house she sometimes texted me saying " I hate this and I'm so sorry for hurting you but yet she never stopped me. when I got all my stuff out I texted her saying I got all my stuff out and if I could see the girls one last time before I left the state. She let me come see them. It was very hard saying goodbye to the girls. Right before I leave she hugs me and says I'm sorry and I love you. not gonna lie I almost started to cry right there. later that night as I was driving away she texted me saying " the house feels so empty without you and that she didn't know what she wanted right now but any girl would be lucky to have me'. Never heard from her again. it's been a very hard month because I still love her and her girls very much. my question is why do girls say things like that when they are doing the dumping?
ks0985 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 ok I have a question. when my ex dumped me I had just moved in with her 2 months prior. she knew my finical status at the time and still kicked me out. I had to basically sleep on couches for a week until I could move out. I had to move out while she was at work and her two girls were at school. I left on a Wednesday and didn't come back till the following Monday to get my things. when I got to the house all my pictures were gone. I saw the necklace I have her on the night stand. during the week I was out of the house she sometimes texted me saying " I hate this and I'm so sorry for hurting you but yet she never stopped me. when I got all my stuff out I texted her saying I got all my stuff out and if I could see the girls one last time before I left the state. She let me come see them. It was very hard saying goodbye to the girls. Right before I leave she hugs me and says I'm sorry and I love you. not gonna lie I almost started to cry right there. later that night as I was driving away she texted me saying " the house feels so empty without you and that she didn't know what she wanted right now but any girl would be lucky to have me'. Never heard from her again. it's been a very hard month because I still love her and her girls very much. my question is why do girls say things like that when they are doing the dumping? That sucks bro, you took the break up pretty good. Just hang in there and try to focus on yourself and the future.
Am4Real Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 There might be a myriad of reasons and certainly combing through the posts in this forum will introduce you to all sorts of reasons, even from some of the DUMPERS on here. However, only she knows for sure of her reasons and only she knows what goes through her mind in the ensuing days following her decision. I have not read your original post which may detail the reasons she asked you to leave so I could be speaking without total comprehension, although most of what you are describing in this post sounds a bit like your EX is dealing with GUILT for hurting you and perhaps other guilty feelings. She may feel more than she is letting on to you – but again, who knows. What you do know for sure is the relationship is over, she asked you to leave and you are obliging her. It is truly now time to concentrate on YOU and your healing and not over think the past. I’m very sorry for your loss and the hardships you are enduring at this time.
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