IAmWhatTheFoxSays Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Ex girl and I have been broken up a few months now. We did that whole separate completely then try again nonsense for a little while afterwards. We're amicable. She removed me from Facebook (probably to help move on, I didn't care) but then a few weeks later sent a message on there that was clearly meant for somebody else (again, I didn't care if it was accidental or "accidental"). That was a few weeks ago; a few days ago she randomly texted me to tell me her mom says hi. WTF 1. If her mom is "saying hi" I can assure you she doesn't realize we've broken up; my ex and I hardly speak, so why hasn't she informed her mother? 2. Even if that is true, why is she actually saying this to me? I haven't heard from homegirl in weeks -- haven't had meaningful conversation for a couple months -- and that's what she comes with...dude, it's weird. 3. If it's just some feeble attempt to tug on the leash or check her status with me, why not just say hi like a normal person? Though we don't really talk now, we have had friendly conversations since our breakup, there is no reason to feel she can't just talk to me straight up. Oh, by the way, I didn't respond to her most recent message, whatever that's worth.
Sososad Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Think you nailed it yourself there. It's her tugging on ur lead..see if your still there and is say she is trying to possibly open the lines of communication again? Defo a strange one to try bringing her mom in but I've had some Weird "ice breakers" too. Think the only thing we can be sure of is your on her mind one way or another. Fair play on ignoring it's not easy .. What's your stance are you done and dusted or hoping for maybe a reconciliation down the line ?
Author IAmWhatTheFoxSays Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 I appreciate the responses. I'd be willing to date her again in the future, but we definitely need time apart for at least the time being; I'm not holding out hope. I just don't get why she would use such a weird ice breaker when we've had normal types of conversation already. I could understand if it had been the first attempt at contact, but bringing in her mom was strange to me. Keep moving forward.
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