Weightlesswings Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 We broke up on Monday, we were already angry at each other because we had a stupid fight because I said he didn't make enough effort that week to come see me after I had surgery and spent time with his friends instead (I understand he can go see his friends but he can do that anytime and I was stuck at home feeling miserable from surgery and wanted his company). Later that night his best friend called him to tell him that one of my "friends" told her a lie about me that everyone for some stupid reason believes. My boyfriend flipped his **** at me and my reply was "I'm not going to continuously defend myself when you're believing someone who's known to cause trouble over your girlfriend. I didn't do it and there's honestly nothing more I can say" he kept trying to call me the next day and I didn't answer because I knew he was just going to continuously yell and not believe me anyway. When he finally said he believed me he said it's too late, I didn't try hard enough to get him back and our relationships never going to work (we've been together for ten months) we have broken up other times but this is the longest we've ever stayed broken up (5 days) He told me he still wants to be friends because I do mean a lot to him and he still cares but he isn't making any effort towards that and isn't even being nice to me really. I want him back so badly I would do anything. What can I do?
emi Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 If he wasnt there for you in your surgery time, it means he doesnt care about you. Why would you need a boyfriend like that? He also believed his friends more than you so i would say you arent meant to be together. Move on 2
d0nnivain Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Not being there for your surgery is a BIG deal. It doesn't bode well for his level of commitment to you. You have only been in this relationship for 10 months -- not even a whole year -- but this isn't your 1st break up. It should be the last because clearly this relationship is not working for one or both of you. The cycle of break up & make up is childish. Let this go. Take some time to heal & find somebody with whom you are more compatible.
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