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Did anyone's ex contact them today? (Thanksgiving Day)

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me85 Established Member

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Soooo…do tell.

 

Yay or nay? If YAY what did they say & did you respond?

 

If NAY, are you ok?

 

(I'm such a poet) :laugh:

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Salvatore85 Established Member

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Nope and I still had a blast with my family.

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elbe Established Member

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I was expecting it but no, sadly. If she did I would not have responded anyway. First thanksgiving in many years without a girlfriend. Growing up is hard to do.

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Nope and haven't shoved any animals in the oven today either :p

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Wall E Member

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what's thanksgiving??

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me85 Established Member

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I was expecting it but no, sadly. If she did I would not have responded anyway. First thanksgiving in many years without a girlfriend. Growing up is hard to do.

 

Hahaha! :laugh:

 

Boy, do I know how you feel, this is the first time I've been single during the holidays in 8 years.

 

Growing up IS hard to do, but here we are, doing it.

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A bit surprised she didn't, but she didn't. I think I'll take this as the sign for full NC. Wish me luck!

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Yes. It's been 4 months bu, lc up until a week ago when I went full Nc and told her not to contact me at this time. It was more gigs with her. No fighting or cheating.

 

9:45am

"Hi. I know u didn't want me to contact you but I just wanted to wish you a happy tgiving ;) "

 

I debated whether to ignore but thought that'd look bitter on a holiday. So two hours later I simply respond

 

"Thank you. Happy thanksgiving"

 

Zero emotion. I read nothing in to it other than yeah, I'm on her mind and she might be missing me. We spent the last three thanksgivings together.

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me85 Established Member

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A bit surprised she didn't, but she didn't. I think I'll take this as the sign for full NC. Wish me luck!

 

LUCK!!!!! :laugh:

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Nope. Wanted the "victory" of her reaching out and me not responding, but I guess that's not what this is about. Someday I won't care.

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Contacted her indirectly so If I'm lucky she won't see it or reply. Chances are she could care less anyhow. Wish I could do the same.

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Holy s**t. Not three minutes after I posted that and she called. It's late, about to go to sleep and she waits until the last moment. Is she playing head games? I did not answer. I will not break.

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Frank13 Established Member

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Nope. Didn't expect it. Didn't want it. Wouldn't have meant anything if I got it.

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Frank13 Established Member

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Yes. It's been 4 months bu, lc up until a week ago when I went full Nc and told her not to contact me at this time. It was more gigs with her. No fighting or cheating.

 

9:45am

"Hi. I know u didn't want me to contact you but I just wanted to wish you a happy tgiving ;) "

 

I debated whether to ignore but thought that'd look bitter on a holiday. So two hours later I simply respond

 

"Thank you. Happy thanksgiving"

 

Zero emotion. I read nothing in to it other than yeah, I'm on her mind and she might be missing me. We spent the last three thanksgivings together.

 

I would have responded with as little efffort as possible, "u 2"

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Lokie Established Member

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Well, my previous crush contacted me surprisingly. I have him in my phone as "Unavailable Casual Sex." I shared this at the dinner table and we all got a giggle.

 

I wrote a simple "Same to you" text back. *sigh*

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Jmk21 Established Member

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I didnt hear a peep from her. A little suprised but I'm glad I didn't get anything. I actually didnt think of it until I seen this thread

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me85 Established Member

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Mine did not.

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Mine left me a voice mail for me to hear today ( Friday) the coward calls my office line ( only way to contact me, he is blocked through my cell and emails) but it is soooo funny that he has been leaving voice mails when I am NOT in the office-- such a wimp- would never dare to call and talk to me directly- he knows what he did to me.... coward...... NC baby!! :) Feeling FREE!

 

ps- Best Thanksgiving in a long time!!!! No fighting, it was a great time with my family. :)

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Mine did, and I didn't respond. She contacted me multiple times actually because I didn't respond. Trying to guilt me into saying something. I feel really bad for not responding because I know she was alone and not able to be with her family. But she doesn't want me in her life anymore... Her wish is fulfilled.

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Mine "ended" things with me about four months ago by telling me (BS) that she needed more time. I said okay get in touch with me when you are ready (naive). I have maintained NC ever since. Yesterday came and went with no texts or anything from her.

 

I'm actually glad she didn't end up texting me on Thanksgiving because that was the definitive sign to me that it's over for good. I feel very liberated by this and I feel like I can finally let go of the relationship. Till now I'd been looking at the relationship with rose-colored glasses; they're finally off.

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Mine didn't contact me either and it was her son's birthday (I got him a gift and left it there pre-break up) so I am a little surprised she didn't say anything.

 

However, this has been the biggest sign that it's over for good and has provided me with the freedom to take a job offer overseas before year's end. I'm looking forward to sealing and shipping my boxes for good this time 'round, sans an 8-year romance.

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Ansem Member

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Mine did and I don't understand why she continues to do so. Every month she a reason to contact me. Sept, she wished me a happy birthday to which I foolishly responded to. Oct, she wanted to see how I was doing and now this. It sucks b/c I have no idea what she wants from me.

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StyleOnEm Established Member

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Mine did and I don't understand why she continues to do so. Every month she a reason to contact me. Sept, she wished me a happy birthday to which I foolishly responded to. Oct, she wanted to see how I was doing and now this. It sucks b/c I have no idea what she wants from me.

 

Why don't you tell her not to contact you anymore, instead of ignoring her?

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AnyaNova Established Member

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Soooo…do tell.

 

Yay or nay? If YAY what did they say & did you respond?

 

If NAY, are you ok?

 

(I'm such a poet) :laugh:

 

Nay.

 

I am ok. It was nothing less than I expected.

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