Do I Not go to my brothers house because "she" will be there?

[Mr. Hustle]

He guys just a quick question. Do I alienate myself from my brothers new years eve party because "she " will be there or no? I know if I saw somthing between her and someone else Id pry explode inside, but I feel that this is my fam and friends and I know they are her friends too but I cant see that shat cuz I still love her. My other post is "She walked all over me, but I still love her, now what"(Breaking uo) just in case. Please give me some insight on this on.

[alphamale]

well first, if yer bro is havin' the bash he should not have invited "her".

 

if i were you i would avoid the party cause somethin' bad may happen. the only way you should go is if you have another bird (i.e. girl) on your arm.

[Mr. Hustle]

I AM bringing an old friend/GF that is back in town for the hollidays. My bro's wife is good friends with her and everyone (which includes her friends) are gonna be there. Last new year's was when we got togather, Ten minutes later some dude was kissing her. So I bounced and the next morning she came crying. I dont want another night like that and Im really only bringing my friend as a friend but as an insurrance policy in case she does get out of control. Do you think this is childish, I'm not doing it to make her want me or hurt her as I really do still love her and always will, I dont want to see her hurt eventhough she has hurt me alot. Tell me what you think.

[250r]

sounds like a case of damned if you do and damned if you don't. I'd prolly go and test the water to see how it goes. If its too uncomfortable, leave early and least you got to see everyone and say hi. Tell them that you have other plans later that evening...

[alphamale]

Originally posted by Mr. Hustle

Do you think this is childish, I'm not doing it to make her want me or hurt her as I really do still love her and always will, I dont want to see her hurt eventhough she has hurt me alot. Tell me what you think.

 

 

If you have a woman going with you then you should go. But make sure you get there before "her" so that she is uncomfortable upon entrance.

 

Don't drink too much and if things get uneasy then make up some excuse and split.

[Mr. Hustle]

I see what your saying. It sucks! I got another question to go along with this. Ok, She has stated that she just doesnt feel the same, but in the same sentence she says that she still loves me like a boyfriend. WTF! And Ive put myself through turmoil too long for this. I know I need to let go but I dont know how. I dont call her or bother her but she'll call me when shes bored for like a second and say she will call me back but won't. How do I just go back to when I did not care aabout her? this is the reason I didnt want to give her a chance, b/c I knew she wouldnt be the type of girl I was looking for. ARGHH!

[Mr. Hustle]

Ya know, on the above questions?........