Xemyd Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 So, after almost 3 months since the break up, and only two instances of texting initiated by me, I’m pretty sure he lied about the reason for breaking up. I’m the type of person who is very straightforward, I tell it like it is, which is why so many think I'm a bitch lol. My ex broke up with me saying he couldn’t do the distance anymore, as he has been working out of town for a year while we were together, and would be going back out of town again for work. He had told me once that if he got this certain job, he’d be close enough to home to come home every night and we’d be ok, and have a proper relationship. Lucky for me I have to drive past his house every day and he’s never there in the morning, and I noticed that he comes home later at night, so I’m fairly sure he is working someplace close to home. My question is, as ex girlfriend, do I have the right to text him and ask him about it? If so, should I be nice about it, or should I be a bitch, because I’m actually furious at him now. I’m very snarky, and I’m tempted to text him saying “next time you break up with someone, give them the real reason, not some bull**** distance excuse.” I know at this point I should just get over it and move on, but I’m not one to let someone lie straight to my face and not call them out on it.
Salvatore85 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Not trying to be a jerk but no one is actually owed an explanation for why they were dumped. We all want an actual explanation but the reality is it fixes nothing. It's just another excuse to talk to your ex. We all do it so don't feel bad but it's just better for your sanity to move on and forget about it.
strive Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 My question is, as ex girlfriend, do I have the right to text him and ask him about it? To put it bluntly, no you have no right to anything because you're now an ex. And even if you confront him about it, you'll just get more angry and frustrated because you expect a certain kind of reaction or reason from him. But you won't get it and he'll likely say/do the opposite. Very few people get what they want when demanding an explanation from an ex.
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 OMG Who cares the reason? It's over! He's dead.. hit by a bus. Grieve and move on! Call me!
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