hasekninh1984 Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I meet a girl and went out out for a date couples of times. It all nice and prefect. I take her out on her bday we well. I ask to see her again and we agree before she went on a vacation. When she came back from vacation last week, I sense something wrong. I told her that I notice that we talking less as before. Suddenly she told me she were ready for a relations or dating anytime soon. I ask her if it me or if I did anything wrong. She stated that it her that she not ready. She just want time for herself and her space. So now we don't even talking at all. But she said she wants still to be friend. She told me she stop dating other ppl as well just not only me.I am a person that like to plan thing ahead of time. I don't like to wait the last min to think of something. I plan thing out first and ask her later. So now, we have plan this coming up, should I hang out w her? or move on? what should I do? I don't want her to feel like am forcing her to go out with me. I do want to give her space and her time. I am now hesitate to ask her out because she might feel like am pressure her to go out. I did told her it her decision. Did I do anything wrong?
todreaminblue Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 No you didnt do anything wrong.......keep hope alive she may come back....give her the time to see you......and what you have to offer....deb
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Did you make any physical moves on those dates? If not -- she could have been disappointed. Women like to move fast. Also, who knows what happened on her vacation whether she found a guy out there or have some kind of self-realization that she likes women (or anything else for that matter). Keep it moving! cheers
Author hasekninh1984 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Did you make any physical moves on those dates? If not -- she could have been disappointed. Women like to move fast. Also, who knows what happened on her vacation whether she found a guy out there or have some kind of self-realization that she likes women (or anything else for that matter). Keep it moving! cheers No, I didn't make any physical move on her because she were dating other ppl as well. Your right, idk what happen on her vacation. maybe she did fine a guy and not let me know about it. But it her choice.
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 No, I didn't make any physical move on her because she were dating other ppl as well. Your right, idk what happen on her vacation. maybe she did fine a guy and not let me know about it. But it her choice. Well you might have missed your chance this time around. Keep her in your contacts but keep building that list! Good luck!
Author hasekninh1984 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 No you didnt do anything wrong.......keep hope alive she may come back....give her the time to see you......and what you have to offer....deb I love to her her time, It just that I don't like ask her out anymore because I don't want her to feel like am forcing her to go out w me. Secondly, If we do go out, I dont know what to talk about or do. Maybe I just let her ask me out, because I dont always want to be the one ask her out constantly
Author hasekninh1984 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Well you might have missed your chance this time around. Keep her in your contacts but keep building that list! Good luck! why do you said that? you can't expect me to kiss her or physical contact w her on the first date or two. If I lose my chance it arlight there are POF out there for me.
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