shadow15 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Alright I'll try to make this as short as possible. Anyways me and this girl go to school together, I'm 21, she's 23, and well we were just friends you know. Then she asked for my number and we started texting more and more and she became flirty, so of course I flirted back. We started hanging out some, nothing big just studying together and then out on the weekends; i wasnt thinking nothing of it. However all of sudden, she just doesn't talk anymore, like I feel like I'm always the one starting up the conversations via txt and when we do txt she doesn't flirt anymore, however, in person she wants my attention. Maybe she lost interest or maybe she's just one of those girls that wants attention and when they know they got it, they don't care. I usually wouldn't care about this type of behavior, but for some reason I really like this girl. Any suggestions? I thought about asking her what's up, but I don't know if that is the best approach. I think I may ask her to hang one day next week and we will see from there. If she says yes, then I guess I'm good, if no then I guess I got my answer lol. Only thing I have been doing different is I haven't been flirty mean, maybe that's what I need to continue doing.
winny Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 When I was around 21, I came to know that a particular guy likes me. I texted him and he texted back. We started talking a lot. Initially I felt bit of an attraction. But the more I spoke to him, and got to know him, my attraction started dying out. It was because of certain things he said which I found weird. Maybe some other girl would have liked that. And then there was the sudden realization that I don't actually like him... never had... it was just the idea of an admirer which excited me... And whatever flirting and all was happening, one morning I didn't feel like that anymore. I withdrew. I am sure he would have thought I am some stone hearted person and he sent me few texts to say how hurt he was. But I just knew he isn't the one for me and ignored everything. It wasn't like I was seeing anyone or anything. So there could be many reasons why this girl withdrew after flirting with you. She may not be completely correct in her behavior also. I wasn't. But it's all right. Forget her and move on
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