Indy87 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 My GF has broken up with me. My GF and I just broke up because she is seeing a therapist and has a lot of issues. I want to ask a about communication though, even though it is not why we broke up. The night we broke up was on the back of a weird week when she was not talking to me and was jealous I met a friend. We made up but when I met up with her she was quiet. She was quiet because she has a lot issues and she didn't actually want to meet me because she likes reading psychology and healimg herself. She said that she would have felt guilty if she asked me not to come. Fast forward to after that weekend and I ask to meet up and she's like, 'yeah we can meet up, if you want to'in a real negative way and again when I meet her she is distracted and again I ask what's up. She gets angry but it turns she wants a break. I mean, based on her behaviour and not talking to me, was asking a question like 'are you ok' bad? I WANT TO STRESS I DID NOT PESTER HER WITH QUESTIONS AND WHEN SHE DIDN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT, I COULD EASILY CHANGE THE SUBJECT!!
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 My Ex's therapist told her to break all communication with me.. just saying.
elbe Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Yes, the therapist deemed it an 'unhealthy relationship'.
Author Indy87 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 Oh yeah? Do you agree with that? Well her therapist said we wouldn't last. My GF told me that he said I was fine but she was the one with the problem. The problem with therapy as well is that is can bring up a lot of stuff for people and they can feel worse before they feel better.
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