Heartbroken098 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We've had fights and breaks throughout. We had a real break up last year and got back together. Now we are breaking up again. How many break ups are too many when you realize it just won't work anymore?
mandyxo Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We've had fights and breaks throughout. We had a real break up last year and got back together. Now we are breaking up again. How many break ups are too many when you realize it just won't work anymore? I wish i had an answer. This is our 3rd breakup. Over the course of 8 months. Sounds crazy... sounds like he "isnt the one".. but we keep "lets give it all or nothing this time". batter upp... heart wants what the heart wants. Question is how do you know you're gonna get back together again.
Author Heartbroken098 Posted November 28, 2013 Author Posted November 28, 2013 are you guys broken up for real this time or are you guys getting back together? well he wants to break up because he feels like he can never make me happy. I don't think that's true and I feel like there is a way to fix our relationship. He told me to think about it for a few days and see how I feel. He feels like I complain a lot in the relationship and he's probably not making me happy. I just don't know if I should try to convince him otherwise when we already broke up in the past. Sometimes I think breaking up so many times shows that we are just not right for each other.
ponchsox Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 It sounds like your relationship is broke and instead of fixing the root of the problem you are putting band aids on them hoping they will get better. People don't change all that much. You have to ask yourself honestly "is this the person you really want to be with long term?"
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