FearingTEN Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I don't understand girls !! There are days when my ex girlfriend is EXTRA lovey and tells me how much she loves me randomly and tells me how much she wants to be with me . It even goes as far as us having phone sex . But then there are days when she doesn't text me as much and when I say "i love you" she doesn't get into the mood to flirt ! And then I question if she changed her feelings about me ! But then the cycle goes over all over again ! what does this mean ): I love her to death but I'm so confused . I understand guys are different from girls but ugggh .
mikecr50 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 She's being mean and just toying with you! Are you ok with that?
FrostBlaze Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Probably using you, went through the same thing, broke it off recently. Lovey dovey when she is in the mood, then goes sower 2-3 dayz or less, then it's back. You are probably not her no1 option, she is just killing time with you. Watch out and i mean it. She has a ex or something? As far as it goes for me, this whole on/off thing went for 3 month's before going back to her ex. Despite "lying' to me or idk what to call it, when she was all lovey and loving me and wanted to be friends, now that she is back with that guy i am blocked/ignored all over the place, she is cold as ice, told me to leave her alone lol. SInce she is allready a EX, keeping you until something else pop's, she has her needs.
reddragon588 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 No this hasn't happened to me because I'm in no contact. 2
organizedchaos Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I don't understand girls !! There are days when my ex girlfriend is EXTRA lovey and tells me how much she loves me randomly and tells me how much she wants to be with me . It even goes as far as us having phone sex . But then there are days when she doesn't text me as much and when I say "i love you" she doesn't get into the mood to flirt ! And then I question if she changed her feelings about me ! But then the cycle goes over all over again ! what does this mean ): I love her to death but I'm so confused . I understand guys are different from girls but ugggh . Then don't communicate with her at all! 1
TylerDurdenn Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 She texts you when she isn't getting any attention from other boys. 1
kjackson1 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I don't understand girls !! There are days when my ex girlfriend is EXTRA lovey and tells me how much she loves me randomly and tells me how much she wants to be with me . It even goes as far as us having phone sex . But then there are days when she doesn't text me as much and when I say "i love you" she doesn't get into the mood to flirt ! And then I question if she changed her feelings about me ! But then the cycle goes over all over again ! what does this mean ): I love her to death but I'm so confused . I understand guys are different from girls but ugggh . I'm in a similar situation, its sucks.
strive Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Does it recur every month? You know about the monthly thing, right? Seriously though, if she's an ex why are you still having phone sex with her? Stop talking to her and you won't have this problem. 1
haggard969 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 yes happens to me, every dam day, yesterday she asked if i wanted to hang out, i didnt text her back until after work, but she texted three more times in that period, i said enouph then i said, im going to ask you somthing. because she left me for another guy. i said, did everything turn out the way you wanted to? she said no. i said Are you happy. she said no. then i asked, what do you want to happen, and what will make you happy. she sais, the new guy is nice and stuff n she likes him, but shes STUCK on me because she NOW realises that she had it all with me and she dropped it for him. she said she was so comfortable with me around that it was easy enouph to let me go. but now she doesnt feel comfortable bringing the new guy into her serious life, around her family n kid n crap, and She doesnt want to start over, but i said she was keeping me on the hook, then she said she is going to get her **** to gether and make some major changes in her life. i now have 6 girls ive been seeing, nothing serious, just trying to get my ego up and play the field abit, theres only one of them i acutually like n i keep on the side just incase my ex trys to screw me around a bit longer. anyways, thats probly the same thing shes doing to you. she is probly realising her mistake and wants to make sure your still there, you can still be there, just slowly become more distant n she will knotice. thats what i did n now my ex texts me all the time. im pretty sure she wants me back , well she told me she did serveral times, i just dont think she knows how to get rid of the other guy , its messed up, hang in there, if you ex becomes flirty with you, dont be flirty back, just send short texts back that get to the point and are blunt., shell keep trying to luer you in but you gotta resist,
Mariposa10 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 My ex was doing this with me. HE'S A GUY, so no, it's not a thing only women do. I asked him to stop and respect me as a friend.
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