HeartInPieces Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Don't know what to do... I went back into NC after breaking it about a week ago. When I broke it, we talked via text for a while and it seemed to be going ok... I then talked about old feelings and she said she just wants to be "friends". We both agreed we couldn't be friends because I still have feelings for her and that was the end of our conversation. Was wondering what would happen today. I had pretty much decided that I wasn't going to reach out to her and wish her a happy thanksgiving or anything. I don't hate her, but I really don't see the point. She just reached out to me, which kind of surprised me because I always inititated contact with her. She basically just said she still cares about my family (does that include me?). No "I miss you" no "happy thanksgiving" or anything. I don't think I'm going to respond. I still care about her so much, and I want to respond because I really do wish her the best... I just... Can't. I WONT!!! arghh... Totally set off my emotions because now I know for sure that she was actually thinking of me today. ugh.... Anyone else? How did you react?
cavalier99 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Don't know what to do... I went back into NC after breaking it about a week ago. When I broke it, we talked via text for a while and it seemed to be going ok... I then talked about old feelings and she said she just wants to be "friends". We both agreed we couldn't be friends because I still have feelings for her and that was the end of our conversation. Was wondering what would happen today. I had pretty much decided that I wasn't going to reach out to her and wish her a happy thanksgiving or anything. I don't hate her, but I really don't see the point. She just reached out to me, which kind of surprised me because I always inititated contact with her. She basically just said she still cares about my family (does that include me?). No "I miss you" no "happy thanksgiving" or anything. I don't think I'm going to respond. I still care about her so much, and I want to respond because I really do wish her the best... I just... Can't. I WONT!!! arghh... Totally set off my emotions because now I know for sure that she was actually thinking of me today. ugh.... Anyone else? How did you react? Mean absolutely 0. STAY NC. Block her instead of responding. This would be a good move. Cav 1
GeneralJennyJenn Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 The first holiday for anyone who recently went through a breakup is hard whether they were the dumper or the dumpee. Because you didn't reach out to her today, she of course missed the contact from you and its flattering when someone likes us even if we don't like them back. I agree with the other respondent. DO NOT REPLY. Your mission in life is not to inflate your ex's ego but to recover and move on to better things and people! 2
mendsley Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Stand back and look at this. You will see that you are excited she contacted you because YOU think there might be another chance. All this is on her part is guilt! That is it. Do not read into this and stay NC. If she really wanted to talk to you about real sh*t you would know it. This is going to eat you alive for the next few days because you think you're missing out on a "chance" but don't let your mind fool you. Get with friends/family and enjoy time with people who actually give a crap about your feelings. This is a test... don't fail! Stay strong!! Mike 3
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