aaron11892 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 You see a lot of stories about guys who regret dumping their ex and they still do months down the line. You see stories of girls who dump their ex, regret it and feel guilty to begin with then eventually move on. I think this is the case because the majority of girls think about the decision weeks before pulling the trigger and guys do it just because they may be going through a bad patch. Anyway are their any stories of girls who regret breaking up with their boyfriends and still continue to regret it months later? Even if you maintain strict NC right from the break up? Maybe you want to reach out to your ex but are scared of how he will react? Any stories at all?
RDawg Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Not surprising that there are no replies to this thread.. 2
Author aaron11892 Posted November 28, 2013 Author Posted November 28, 2013 Not surprising that there are no replies to this thread.. lol me either...wasn't expecting a lot tbh.
Jiminy Cricket Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 yeah my girl left me because she was unhappy. 3 weeks later i get a text saying "i'm sorry i haven't been myself for a while. i'm taking this time to work on us. i want you back babe." it lasted only 3 months after that.
Author aaron11892 Posted November 28, 2013 Author Posted November 28, 2013 yeah my girl left me because she was unhappy. 3 weeks later i get a text saying "i'm sorry i haven't been myself for a while. i'm taking this time to work on us. i want you back babe." it lasted only 3 months after that. 3 weeks wasn't long enough for you both to recover from the relationship and jumping back in too soon just made the old problems arise again. 1
Eddie007 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I'm sure there are stories out there. Just maybe not on this board. My ex wife of almost 7 years cheated on me. I cried and begged, even said I was ok with it and didnt care. I tried to convince her to give it another shot. She declined. About a month later she told me all the things I wanted to hear like she was sorry, loved me, wanted to make it work etc......however by that time although I was still very much hurting I could see things clearer and declined to get back together. That was almost 6 years ago and she is still with the man she cheated with. We are civil to each other and I see and talk to her weekly because we have children together. My life is so much better without her. Although she as never said it I can almost read it in her actions that she regrets what she let go to this day. 2
nevergoodenough Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Eddie, your presence is need in my thread lol
strive Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 the majority of girls think about the decision weeks before pulling the trigger Nope, this is not a girl thing. This is a DUMPER thing. A lot of dumpers think about this weeks (even months) in advance and agonizing over it, which is why they get a sense of relief after they finally did it. As for girls who dump their exes and regret it, look around the boards. I recall a few female posters here going through dumper's remorse. 2
Shaine Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 2 days after breaking up with my ex, i regretted it. Begged him and everything. I regretted it for a week. But im okay now. it's only been 15 days NC and i dont want him back anymore. Okay maybe just 10% chance i will accept him if he apologize and beg. But im really okay now. What i feel for him now is anger and disgust. I shouldnt have beg for him to take me back. My first decision of breaking up with him is right.
Kermit76 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 My ex has too much of an ego to admit regret. So even if she did she wouldn't reach out to me. Yes. Took me after the breakup after dating for 2 years that I was with a very cold person with a giant ego. Sigh.
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