teobeo94 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 earlier I gave her a text- "My friends and I got lost in my car today and I remember how we had our “lost” adventures… you were so funny and nice about it when you bossed me around with the directions!" She replied witin 30 seconds saying "I was so mean to you with the directions.. lol" I ended the conversation since I was with my friends, but I hinted that I'll contact her later and that's it. Is this a positve sign?
Million.to.1 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 No. Her answer reinforced that she didn't treat you right. "i was mean to you" ..... translation - "you deserve better" Stop initiating contact with her.
Never Again Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 No. Her answer reinforced that she didn't treat you right. "i was mean to you" ..... translation - "you deserve better" Stop initiating contact with her. That's not how that translates at all. However, he is right. If you're concerned about whether or not it's a positive sign (aka, reading into it) then you shouldn't be contacting her.
d0nnivain Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 At best it was a polite response. You two have shared history. Just because you have a common past does not mean you have a future. Nothing in her response indicates that she wants you back. 1
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 sorry man, if she wanted you back she would try and get you back.
BC1980 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 She's just being nice by replying. Don't initiate contact with her.
StyleOnEm Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 If you're in a good place emotionally -- continue doing LC with this girl. Her text sounds playful.. and her response within 30 seconds adds that she couldnt wait to get back in touch. Keep being lighthearted with her, make her laugh but try not to reminisce too much about the past. Talk more about you at first and then ask her about herself. You'll know if she's interested.
Author teobeo94 Posted November 29, 2013 Author Posted November 29, 2013 I was dumped and I now realized I should have communicated with her and paid attention to her more. It was due to my lack of commitment.. I realized that now and want my girlfriend back with full commitment. She lost feelings for me due to my flaws that I mentioned. Is this apology good enough? I tried to express my whole feelings. "Didn't want to possibly ruin your thanksgiving, so I waited haha. Now that I feel I've improved as a person, I can say that I am aware of your pain.. and how hard it was for you to make the decision. I'm sorry and taking responsibility for not communicating with you and for neglecting the little details that could have made you happy. A promise is a mere word, but I can show you I'm sincere about my commitment, which was not present before, to make things work."
Simon Phoenix Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 You didn't actually send that did you?
BlessYourCottonSocks Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I wish my ex would send me that...
Never Again Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 Yikes. Nearly always stay shushed up. If you committed some wrong that you need to apologize for to clear your own conscience, then a simple "I know I hurt you, and I'm sorry" is all you should utter. If you have intentions other than just saying sorry for sorry's sake, then you're better off holding your tongue. You'll only weird out your ex and hurt yourself more. 2
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