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told my girlfriend I cheated. but I lied


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My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship off and on for 3 years. I'm 23 she is 21.

The other night I went to get a beer at a bar for my best friends weekday birthday. Then I went to my girlfriends house and fell asleep at 11:00pm. At 3 am she had to go to work. She took my phone and went to the bathroom while I was asleep. She accused me of being on my phone texting a chick. (I never got a text from anyone) she accused me of deleting it. And accused me of cheating. I told her no and that she is crazy. She went to work. She came back at 8am. I was still asleep. She took my phone and searched again. I woke up and took it. She kept accusing me then too. Finally she said get out of my house. I got up and put my clothes on. She said you cheater!! I said yup and ill do it again. ( I never really cheated I lied)

 

I never told her I lied. She still thinks I cheated. I'm just fed up over all the years her and I fought over this same thing. I really love her. She's very beautiful but I'm afraid I'm hurtting her badly and that things will never be great like they used to.

 

I really need advice thxs

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It looks like you two have problems with communication. Why were you off and on for 3 years? It doesn't look like you have a stable RS to begin with.

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