mikejensen3355 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I'm with family and all but I'm just so distracted. I'm trying to have fun and stay in the moment, but I'm sure most of you know how hard that is to do while we're going through this. I would just give anything for this feeling to be gone. I really hope that if any of us are still on this board a year from now for next Thanksgiving, that we're here to let others know that things do get better and that they'll make it. Not because we're still hurting and in this ridiculous depth of despair. 2
LoveBoat242 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I'm with family and all but I'm just so distracted. I'm trying to have fun and stay in the moment, but I'm sure most of you know how hard that is to do while we're going through this. I would just give anything for this feeling to be gone. I really hope that if any of us are still on this board a year from now for next Thanksgiving, that we're here to let others know that things do get better and that they'll make it. Not because we're still hurting and in this ridiculous depth of despair. Hey! I'm going through the same, i have a 8 week holiday period coming up my GF Ended it with me last week, i lost most of my friends during my relationship and realised they were all idiots. So.. i don't know how the holidays will be like, i understand how you feel, i was with my mates the other day only thing on my mind was her, just stay strong and keep thinking positive that's what i'm trying to do, i'm on my first day of NC as well. 1
LostConfused123 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 It never occurred to me that I would go through the holidays without "him". I'm forcing myself to enjoy them because under normal circumstances, this is my favorite time of year. Seems to sort of be working. I keep thinking of all I have to be thankful for instead of my heartbreak. Next year I will make it a point to come back to help others that are going through this agony. 1
Salvatore85 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 It's a little rough for me. Christmas will be especially hard but New Years is the day we started dating so I'm assuming it will hit me hard then. I plan to power through it though as it will do me no good to reminisce. 2
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