babygurl8825 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We're long distance, I see him every other week. When we're together he always compliments me, gives me kisses, cuddles me, he texts me everyday. He's told me he loves me, I have not said it back because I'm not ready, so he knows he likes me more than I like him. He recently bought me an expensive christmas gift since I won't be around then. However, I was snooping the other day and found a reciept for lingerie that is not my size. I'm petite so its not like it could be a mistake. I am confused. Please help
Toddbt12y1 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 There has to be something up, if he is buying lingerie that is not your size. Grant you, mistakes can happen: But you are for certain that he cannot mistake your petite frame. This matter should be further investigated; you could ask him. But, I would not expect the truth from him....If he is doing what you believe that he might be doing with said lingerie. What is the date on this receipt? Furthermore, seeing as this is a LDR, he might be getting himself some on the side. I want you to know: I say 'might.' As this is a great hint of things that could be happening behind your back. Accusing him now of this, and showing him the receipt will more than likely be futile; as he will only lie and flip this around. I really hope for better. I do not want you to go through that pain...But, something has to be going on.
Eggplant Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 It looks bad. Ask him about it face to face. Or maybe just forget it. Why bother even asking? Just leave.
justwhoiam Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 They put sizes on the receipts?? That sounds bad.... Anyway, can you copy and paste what's on the receipt? I'd need to googleimage the lingerie model before expressing my opinion. 1
TMichaels Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Maybe he's a cross-dresser. Best, TMichaels 2
Author babygurl8825 Posted November 28, 2013 Author Posted November 28, 2013 The lingerie was bought on the 25th this month. From HisRoomherroom online After Midnight Lace Crotchless Hipster Panty - M - Black and Super Natural Thong - M - White
TMichaels Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 He obviously doesn't know how to shop. I think you should drop 50 bucks on the matching "After Midnight Signature Lace Peek-A-Boo Bralette" and send it to him for Christmas. Best, TMichaels
justwhoiam Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 The lingerie was bought on the 25th this month. From HisRoomherroom online After Midnight Lace Crotchless Hipster Panty - M - Black and Super Natural Thong - M - White Ok. Thanks for the accuracy of the information. The options seem to be: 1) he bought it for you > you need to wait until New Year's Eve and then drop the bomb if you did not get anything like that 2) he bought that for some bachelor party or hen party > get info if anything like that is upcoming 3) he has a hot secret sex life of some sort > when you drop the bomb, you'll find out
stillafool Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Well you haven't told him you love him so maybe he thinks he's still on the block for dating. Have you asked him if he's seeing others? Some men date multiple people and compliment, gift, cuddle and say sweet things to all of them. 1
elbe Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 Don't make any assumptions.. just look at what you know. You only see this guy every other week - I'm assuming for a weekend or less. That isn't much of a basis for a romantic relationship. Depending on how long this has been long distance there is reason to worry that anyone would be less than faithful. I get lonely sometimes even in the company of others let alone, alone. It might be time to evaluate the relationship for reasons other than the lingerie.
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