krista28 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 so…i hooked up with a guy from work at my second job. he basically ignored me after …then called me ******* nuts to another girl at work and a basket case. i am otional yes…but not crazy. anyhow ..my friend screwed things up by threatening him. She claims its cuz she cared about me. thenn…after the dust settled and all….she starts avoiding me tellig me our relationship is one sided…she has tried to steal gyys from me and others before . so….one night i got mad and told her roomate what i thought of her. of course the news spread. and my friend said i need more then meds i need a psychiatric evaluation. she found out what i said . I’ve leant this girl like 200 dollars with no money returned. She was eve being distant before she found out. saying it was one sided….i don get it….but i think she’s jealous of me..and i just dislike her i feel like everyone calls me names aren’t there amy nice people ?
Titania22 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Sounds like you need to let all these people go, and then do some work on yourself. As you grow and change you will attract different kinds of people into your life as friends. As someone who has spent years on self improvement, I can tell you that as hard as it was at times, and felt like wasted effort, it has been 100% worth it. I don't have any more drama in my life, and I generally have positive interactions with people.
Adele0908 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Ignore all of these people as best you can. Be polite but distant with that guy you slept with from work. Reduce contact with that female friend of yours. I have had my experience with "messy", gossip-loving people and it doesn't get better. They will drag you down to the depths of despair if you let them. They are usually miserable themselves, and as the saying goes, misery loves company. Please separate yourself from them. Remember that nothing they say about you or do to you is personal. Don't take it personally. They would probably treat many other people this way, due to their own moral shortcomings. Like Titiana22 said leave them behind and work on yourself. Read self improvement books. Some good authors are Eckhart Tolle, Wayne Dyer and Debbie Ford.
Grumpybutfun Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Be grateful if this is the worst week on earth for you. You have led a charmed life and this drama is mostly of your own making. Hooking up with work guys usually leads to drama because you have to see them even after they dump you. You are faux friends with someone you obviously do not like and have no respect for and you gossiped about her behind her back. You lent money to this same person even though you said she has a questionable character trying to steal guys from you. You blame others for the fact that no one likes you and calls you crazy/names, but you do not take any responsibility for any of your own actions and it seems you have yet to realize that the common denominator between all of these people you complain about is you. In order to lose the drama, you need to work on yourself and figure out why you like the drama. Learn to value yourself, and you won't give people like this the time of the day anymore because your self-worth will be in what you learn, what you share and what you believe, not in others. Good Luck, Grumps
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